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Re: Who isn't a perfectionist?
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It seems to me that most people consider themselves to be a perfectionist. In job interviews, I heard a reporter once say, it was the best 'bad thing' one could have . But, personally, I don't think being a perfectionist is a good thing at all: I often see talented people never getting anything done because it's never good enough .
I've been trying to get rid of perfectionism myself for quite a while, as it is deeply embedded in my worldview because of the way I was raised. Hell, we do live in a competitive society, and being the best is seen as some kind of ultimate goal. Ironically, in spite of my efforts, I haven't achieved perfection in my quest for non-perfectionism (I can't even write a poorly formatted post and let it be ), but I really need to snap out of it.
What about you? What are your views on perfectionism? Are you a perfectionist? |
Great thread, Lira. I can relate with how you feel, I've found myself in similar situations where I've felt the urge to be a perfectionist, to be 'the best', and so on and so forth. I think the sooner you realize that 'success' is not the 'end-result', but the journey from point A to Point B, you'll realize that perfection seldom occurs and most of the time, unexpected behavior and a sequence of unexpected events will form & shape the imperfections that make life, well, perfect (of course, I'm a positive thinker!)

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