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Originally posted by Slylee she is being a tease...that is not to say that she didn't mean what she wrote to you however. but the whole part about talking about her bf and then telling u she had a crush on you is childish. she brought up the bf to get a rise out of you and then left u with your mind going a million different directions...i would just act very aloof with her from now on and see what happens. if she starts to really show interest (and still w/ the other guy) u should bring up the fact that she has a boyfriend and that it appears she is playing games...put her on the spot and see what she says. and i completely disagree with you people saying that everyone acts TOTALLY different on the internet. i dont...i mean yes, im sure lots of us on here aren't as outspoken and funny in person (as i have read a lot of TA's are shy in real life), but i think it's just easier to say things on the internet than in rl. that doesn't mean we wouldn't say those same things in rl...just maybe in a different way or after lots of hesitation...

totally agreed

i say u just have a fling with her...the hell with her bf....keep her as a boobie friend...

and i dunno why ppl think im shy in rl...most ppl that have met me only talked to me for the whole 5 mins...i think im the same on the internet well im the same with my friends....i dunno bah well...then again ive met a few ppl from here and they had a totally different perspective of me before meeting me

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy i say u just have a fling with her...the hell with her bf....keep her as a boobie friend... and i dunno why ppl think im shy in rl...most ppl that have met me only talked to me for the whole 5 mins...i think im the same on the internet well im the same with my friends....i dunno bah well...then again ive met a few ppl from here and they had a totally different perspective of me before meeting me

yes i agree eric when i first chatted with you i thought u were a little annoying punk ass! hahhaa well i still haven't met you but i have changed my opinion...now you're just a funny cute punk ass...

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

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lMIlk: just do what you've been doing before. or just ignore her and piss her off for fun

okey... whatever you say lMIlk

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Technaut: ffs just tell her you want to shag her, plain and simple greetz Technaut

lol

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JohnSmith: She is fucking with your head. tell her: sorry, this is not proper you have a boyfriend. if you are serious about liking me, then dump your boyfriend and come on over so we can talk face to face. trust me m8, girls do that all the time just to drive us crazy, and the internet only makes it harder. they like to give you a stiffy and walk away. it's only proved by the pathetic net-kiss, and then leaving. if she was serious, she'd have stayed to talk with you at the very least.

thats true john..but she is a little bit of an psycho some times,
i have known her for while now...and, well..i don´t know.

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Mail Man: She might just be pulling ur leg (she might need attention) just do what Technaut said and u will c if she is serious or not, if she is serious them..... she only gave u a net kiss, what about the HUGS LOL

very funny mail man..

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Slylee: she is being a tease...that is not to say that she didn't mean what she wrote to you however. but the whole part about talking about her bf and then telling u she had a crush on you is childish. she brought up the bf to get a rise out of you and then left u with your mind going a million different directions...i would just act very aloof with her from now on and see what happens. if she starts to really show interest (and still w/ the other guy) u should bring up the fact that she has a boyfriend and that it appears she is playing games...put her on the spot and see what she says.

okey, i´ll put her on the spot.

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Vivid Boy i say u just have a fling with her...the hell with her bf....keep her as a boobie friend...

Boobie friend huh....thats an good ideé mate

If you don't know when a girl likes you, you got problems.
If you are a teenager, then it's no big deal.
Hopefully you won't be a wanker your whole life.


P.S. - Next time ask her if she wants to be your fuck buddy.

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Originally posted by Tranzlucent If you don't know when a girl likes you, you got problems. If you are a teenager, then it's no big deal. Hopefully you won't be a wanker your whole life. P.S. - Next time ask her if she wants to be your fuck buddy.

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Personally Endre , i think she sound like a dick tease , these kinda girls can be ok in nightclubs etc, but once you start seeing them , there gonna be flirting with other lads on MSN and thats gonna piss you off, My g/f is on the Net all day at college and at night, and she has over 100 lads on her MSN contact list, personally i dont mind , because its over the net. I use to go on the chat rooms and chat to girls but no i can't be arsed as i have all i want. If you put yourself in HER b/f shoes how would you feel if someone was chatting erotic talk on MSN. Girls are terrible for flirting , they love it, why do you think girls put all that make up on and , they take hours to get ready, its so lads notice them , its like a female self EGO thing , this gives girls a good feeling , chatting with other lads makes them feel powerfull.

Personally , i dont think this girl is the one for you. You say she is a real friend then , i tihnk it should stay like that.

Regards Rozzer.

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Originally posted by DJ RozzeR Personally Endre , i think she sound like a dick tease , these kinda girls can be ok in nightclubs etc, but once you start seeing them , there gonna be flirting with other lads on MSN and thats gonna piss you off, My g/f is on the Net all day at college and at night, and she has over 100 lads on her MSN contact list, personally i dont mind , because its over the net. I use to go on the chat rooms and chat to girls but no i can't be arsed as i have all i want. If you put yourself in HER b/f shoes how would you feel if someone was chatting erotic talk on MSN. Girls are terrible for flirting , they love it, why do you think girls put all that make up on and , they take hours to get ready, its so lads notice them , its like a female self EGO thing , this gives girls a good feeling , chatting with other lads makes them feel powerfull. Personally , i dont think this girl is the one for you. You say she is a real friend then , i tihnk it should stay like that. Regards Rozzer.

i think so to Rozzer

Sorry, but people do act differently on the net.

Remember that there are pretty much no consequences for anti-social behaviour, so people often act the way they always wanted to but never could....

This is probably where there seem to be so many perverts and sickos on the net.

As for the problem at hand, I'd seriously recommend talking to her in RL, not over the net. Net chats don't count

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she's fucking with you

why does she need to fuck your mind like this when she already has a bf?

she's not worth your time, sure something may happen if you pursue it, but in the end all the emotional shit you'll go through as she plays mind games on you is not worth it

Pork

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hello thar

Best thing you can do is just play it cool and keep in touch.
If you act more like her 'friend' than someone who wants to get into her pants (which she's probably expecting) you'll get a lot further.
If you really like her, find out more about her through conversation.
Be there for her when she needs it. Get involved in her life.
Believe me, I can't count the number of times this has worked for me.
If it doesn't work out (which it hasn't for me a few times; I'll be honest) at least you had practice for the one you really want (and that's what landed me my beautiful wife).
Of course this all depends on how serious you really are about a relationship or not.
I always took my relationships seriously, but that's just me.

Best of luck

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Originally posted by Fir3start3r Best thing you can do is just play it cool and keep in touch. If you act more like her 'friend' than someone who wants to get into her pants (which she's probably expecting) you'll get a lot further. If you really like her, find out more about her through conversation. Be there for her when she needs it. Get involved in her life. Believe me, I can't count the number of times this has worked for me. If it doesn't work out (which it hasn't for me a few times; I'll be honest) at least you had practice for the one you really want (and that's what landed me my beautiful wife). Of course this all depends on how serious you really are about a relationship or not. I always took my relationships seriously, but that's just me. Best of luck

thanks mate, best opinion so far

cheerz mate