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| quote: | Originally posted by mfitterer1
And people wonder why they are so stuck in their progressions with their musical careers. Have some balls (and confidence) and tell the promoter he can find someone else.
If you allow yourself to be walked over, you will be. If you have the talent; and you don't allow your abilities to be taken advantage of, you will get what you want (and deserve).
This may mean you miss out on this particular gig but I guarantee you people will notice and it will set you up in the future.
Especially in the case where you are bringing a large amount of the people coming, this is inexplicable. If nobody cuts down the douchebags at the top, they stay at the top. |
It really depends on where you stand with your sense of pride: Do you just want to get as many gigs as possible, or do you want to be picky and risk not having gigs for stretches of time?
I wish the people with talent "get what they want and deserve" but real life isn't like that. The reality is: that promoter is the key to staying at that club, and you have to choose between kissing his ass or going elsewhere.
For some (many?) starting DJs, there might not be an "elsewhere" to go to. I had that problem when I started out in small town Hickory. There were three clubs open when I started: the established Top40 club (open since the 70s, disco lights and all), a gay dance club, and a new Top40 club. The established club came with an established resident DJ who also happened to co-own the place and didn't need anyone else. The demo that I handed to the gay club ended up in a black hole somewhere (I never heard back from them; my CD was probably in someone's trash can).
The new club? Shady as hell with these european dudes running the place. I'm pretty sure there were some "white" parties going on in the club, but nonetheless I took the opportunity that presented itself just for the place to play at. I ended up hating the experience of playing the worst Top40 to white trash on crappy Stanton dual CD-players and busted headphones for almost no money (good times), but it was the only thing I could get. Still, it was through this awful gig that I ended up meeting a prominent Top40/Wedding DJ in the area, and had the opportunity to shadow him at a couple of events. I also had a lot of confidence for dealing with people (I'd experienced the worst of the assholes day in and day out) and playing for a crowd, which helped me get my foot in the door of a much better club a year later.
So what is the lesson in all of this? Either kiss-ass, get treated like shit for a while, and learn to tough up to those guidos that want to hear "Poker Face" for the 3rd time, or stay in the bedroom. Unfortunately, you can't be really selective of gigs when it comes to starting out, since there are too many people that will just walk in and take your spot from you (for less pay, even!)
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