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Originally posted by DevanteS rozz's gf broke a principle, so it's really up to him to take her back or not. if he does, then he has to be cautious if he doesn't then maybe he's better off? pork

That's the a big question and only one Roz could really answer I guess.
Does he throw away 7 months?
Or does he forgive, become a white knight in shining armour and let her do herself in? lol

I just haven't gone to bed...coffee???? ICK

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oh boy, just buy her flowers, tell her it was all your fault, and then take her to bed

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Originally posted by flystyler Remember the key to a relationship is trust, if you dont have that you have nothing

Yep.

first of all, you need to relax....... then I think you should hear what she has to say. I mean, she must have a side in this..... why would anyone be stupid enough to throw a great relationship just like that???
good luck, man!!!! and remember, whatever happens between you 2, it's always for the best.....
I've been with my GF in several ups and downs.... I think that if you think it over, and talk to her, then if you 2 love each other, then you'll definately come back to being a couple.....

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thnx for the replies , your right im gonna have to relax but its hard to take ya mind off it , you see my g/f has more boy mates to girl mates, before i met her she use to hang around with like 10 lads, that sounds dodgy, i know if i say to her i dont want you to hang around with em anymore, she is gonna be pissed off, we both have trust and understandings , i belive arguments like these bring each other closer in some way. last night one of her ' so called friends kissed her and he seemed very close to her if you know what i mean , in one way i wished that i was there and keep watching but its hard to hold back.

im quite a protective guy and as soon as i see someone near my g/f i get, suspicious and i guess 'jealous'. I know some lads would not stand for this and go and beat the fuck out of the guy dancing with your g/f. I know one of my friends has been seeing this girl for a year and he wont even let her go out clubbing unless he is there , this seems shitty but i guess he is protective.

I guess im gonna have to get drunk tonight and let my beer decide . !!

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OK bud.. this is all you need to know. short and sweet.. fuck em. Dont get me wrong.. i love chicks.. but I will never allow one to affect me negatively. I will never allow one to get me down. Plus.. they hate it when you ignore them.. so just ignore the hell out of them. Its funny how well things can go when you just dont care. Never used to be like that, until the one who got away broke my heart. Well.. she never really went away because she still loves me but thats another story for another time. Keep your head straight.

Hmmm plaptop may actually be onto something there. I was too caring too and had to get my heart ripped out to make me think about the whole thing. if a girls really not into being on the level don't fck around with em. Tell them where they can go and why

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OK this is what you do.. get her in the sack.. one last time.. and just as you are about to blow your load.. say "look.. whats that over there". and when she turns her head.. launch right in her ear. get up. walk out. laugh about it for a good month or so. then periodically then on out.

I know I may seem like a jerk but dude.. i just dont give a damn anymore. I didnt choose to be like this. I was once a hopeless romantic. I woke up. Number one thing to remember.. which is the demise of most. 99% of people are out for themselves. If they can take it, they will. Recognize that and stay on top.

Rozzer, if she really likes you , then you shouldn't be so miserable.
No relationship should make you feel that way. Everyone has little arguments here and there, but most dont include, "what if i slept in a bed with someone else". It's like she is trying to make you jealous.
And that's game playing. That isn't fair to you. Sit back, dont make any moves, thats what I think. If she wants this as much as you do, let her come to you. She is sounding like the 'guilty' party here, she should apologize IMO.

From the sound of the scene at the club, it was as if she were happy to get that negative attention by you getting angry and her kissing you shortly after.

Dont let anyone play games with your mind. It's not healthy for you.

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Talk to her about it, just don't sound like a pussy when you do it.

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whether u break up with her or not
juss take this as a learning experience
i think u should give it more time and see where it goes from here
if she really loves u, she'll come back to u
and if she doesn't, i guess it was never meant to be
my views r somewhat like fierstarter's
perhaps she was drunk, or she did this because of the depression from the fight
i say juss give it some time..

i mean u can have sex all the time
it's all about balance
there's a time for sex, and a time for ex

ummm..i dunno y i said that...
juss ignore it