But seriously Nou, what makes this most pathetic is that you tell your whole big sob story and there aren't even any real problems in it.

So you have a lousy day every few weeks because of some dream? Big fucking deal.

And what's this shit? --

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I do not feel any urge to really go after any other girl, which sucks ass cause I need to get my dick wet.

If you want to get laid so badly, that's what whores are for. Aside from that, it's probably a blessing in disguise. If you did have an urge to "go after" another girl, you'd be in here bitching about that. Unless it went well, but let's face it--that's not likely.

If those are your problems, you're relatively well off. So why are you whining?

Sod off, Nou! No one cares.

God, where's Jay when you need him?!

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call her you puss

What harm could it do?

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Originally posted by Arbiter If you did have an urge to "go after" another girl, you'd be in here bitching about that. Unless it went well, but let's face it--that's not likely.

Some things you need to do:

Focus on yourself instead of obsessing over someone else.

Get off the computer and do something amongst other people. And do it well. Take up softball, take up running, day lily society, DJing, whatever. Focus your thoughts and energy towards it.

Act like you don't need the shit. And then they (women) give you the shit for free.

Cliff, when are you going to learn?




Ten years? I thought I was bad. And you were the one telling me to "get over it" and "move on" a few months ago. Sounds like you should be taking your own advice. I'm not trying to be a bitch (for once!) but you need to find someone else. It's been 10 years. 10 fucking years wasted on someone who will never see you in that way (from what you've told me). She has a boyfriend, no? She doesn't even live there anymore. Whatever possibility you had is now gone. It sucks getting over someone you love but you have to do it. There is no point in being miserable for someone who probably doesn't give 3 fucks about you (well, she may still care about you as a friend but idk because she hasn't talked to you in a while). Wouldn't you rather find someone else than sit there and mope around thinking about this girl? You're torturing yourself staying in love. I know you can't help your feelings but you need to try. You already don't talk to her, or see her, so you just have to continue trying to keep her off your mind. Find someone that will appreciate your love and friendship rather than loving someone who doesn't love you back. At the end, it's their loss

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Originally posted by AustralianGQ im a failure with females...i will be the real 40 year old virgin i guarentee you

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Originally posted by Rose At the end, it's their loss

LOL

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Originally posted by couch-potato LOL

Shut up lol. Well it is their loss, isn't it? You love someone and they don't love you back. No point in loving someone who doesn't share the same feelings with you.












Fuck you

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Originally posted by AustralianGQ im a failure with females...i will be the real 40 year old virgin i guarentee you

Thanks Rose.

The fun part is I do try to keep her off my mind and its been working really well recently. The only problem is you can't control dreams.


Also, I did confess, there was like an 800 reply thread where it all played out but it got deleted.

Also we were friends for many years after that, but we kept getting in fights, usually because any time we'd argue about ANYTHING she'd randomly toss up "blah blah blah I have a boyfriend you need to realize that, I can't return your feelings" when that had NOTHING to do with ANYTHING.

THe suckiest part was that I never really wanted to fuck her either. I mean I do on some level, but most of the time the idea of fucking her grossed me the fuck out, any sexual thing involving her was sickening. She was basically like my little sister.

Anyway yea, she has a BF now and she graduated college and moved to St. Louis with him while he does grad school. To be honest that is probably going to blow up in her face and she will come home, but really I hope it doesnt cause then it will start all over again cause all she can do when she is home and lonely is call me and have me be her security blanket.

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Originally posted by couch-potato LOL

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I know what you mean about dreams. But there is nothing you can do about that. They are dreams. Just dreams. That's just an excuse. And so what if her boyfriend is moving away? That's her problem. If she comes back to WA and comes back to you for comfort or whatever and you take her back then you're just a fucking moron.

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Originally posted by AustralianGQ im a failure with females...i will be the real 40 year old virgin i guarentee you