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| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
This is obvious:
- You see a person you're attracted to, because of some general features. Suppose you like tall green-eyed redheads and you see one. The person has already entered further judgement with an awful lot of extra points.
- Then you notice the person is not perfect. A tooth is slightly crooked, she has a lisp, or her legs look funny. Unless you consider that to be extremely disgusting (so she loses all the "extra points" she had earned when you first saw her), you quickly adapt that to the whole frame, and what could've become a disadvantage suddenly works on her favour.
- Hence, something that isn't attractive per se suddenly becomes attractive to you, because it's now related to a previous attractive experience.
That being said, I don't think I've ever met a girl with a lisp |
wrong.
this is what you do (i'm talking about YOU, not anyone else).
1. you see an attractive girl, hot, maybe big boobs, way out of your league.
2. you see she has a snaggle tooth, a big mole, a crooked leg, and you think to yourself, hey she's not perfect maybe i could get her.
3. you become attracted to her because you think she's in your league.
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