Exactly, hot girls don't mean a good time. I'd have her pay her way if she could. Women these days want everything for free. (If your not this type then I'm not talking about you :P ) But if she is really interested in you she'll make a way, even if it means forking up the cash. If not, you weren't that interesting to her.

Also, I wouldn't drop with her on the first date. You might both have a magical experience together, or you might end up like those kids from that movie "shrooms".

yes, soul searching is brutle for both male and female. good luck

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Originally posted by TSG Play it safe and don't do it especially if she's the pampered kind. Oh and just cuz she's hot doesn't mean you'll have a great time.

At least you aren't purchasing vip. Honestly, if you want to date her or make her your girlfriend, then you don't wanna come off as a cheap ass in the beginning. If its just a one time deal then you should do what you said in your last post.

I guess it also has to do with your own personal money situation and value for money.

I'm a gambler/poker player. I always find it so funny how I don't want to spend $100 each way flying to Vegas, but I'll lose $100 bucks on a blackjack table in a couple minutes and not care. So I guess its the principle.

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there are girls do not ask for pay. they are very rare. you are not gonna find them in parties dolled up. chase after them.

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Originally posted by vxman there are girls do not ask for pay. they are very rare. you are not gonna find them in parties dolled up. chase after them.

Yeah, but then they have smelly breath...

This has been a very entertaining thread. Thanks for the dilemma scatterbrain

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I don't know what OP did but i would have bought the tix.

I mean shit, whats 100 bucks now a days? Its not that much money.

Also try something like what was mentioned earlier to catch a feel on the situation doing something like this:

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Originally posted by manatsu I think just let her know, you get the ticket, first rounds of drinks on her, in a joking manner. If she reacts positive, like say "Oh ofcourse" then its a go. But if she says "eeermmm hummmmm. Yeah I guess...." Then you know what to do.

Maybe she might pay for it and be a legit chick which is a true score. If she does turn out to be a gold digger, just get her wasted and go for the kill. Just be careful, you don't want her to wasted that she starts puking everywhere and kills everything. Its a fine line...

fuck bitches, love women.

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Originally posted by Nerologic I don't know what OP did but i would have bought the tix. I mean shit, whats 100 bucks now a days? Its not that much money. Also try something like what was mentioned earlier to catch a feel on the situation doing something like this: Maybe she might pay for it and be a legit chick which is a true score. If she does turn out to be a gold digger, just get her wasted and go for the kill. Just be careful, you don't want her to wasted that she starts puking everywhere and kills everything. Its a fine line...

I have the cash, it's the principle behind it though: we interacted only for a short time and immediately I'm spending $85.00 for her ticket? It just felt it wasn't right and that's why I sought advice.

By the way, this is what I ended up doing: I called and left a message. I said that ticket prices went up to $85.00 and to hit me up if she was down to go. I know she won't call back, but hey, what's most important is to have a fucking blast which I'm about to do shortly!

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Originally posted by scatterbrain I called and left a message.

Seems like you did the legit thing.

If she was truly "down" she would have picked up the phone, or called immediately right back if she was in the middle of something.

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Originally posted by scatterbrain I have the cash, it's the principle behind it though: we interacted only for a short time and immediately I'm spending $85.00 for her ticket? It just felt it wasn't right and that's why I sought advice. By the way, this is what I ended up doing: I called and left a message. I said that ticket prices went up to $85.00 and to hit me up if she was down to go. I know she won't call back, but hey, what's most important is to have a fucking blast which I'm about to do shortly!

You did the right thing. You say she's used to being pampered, etc...maybe you not throwing a ticket her way will spark her interest in you since you weren't immediately catering to her. If not, who cares..fish in the sea. Perhaps you even met a lady last night?

Well that sucks she didn't call you back after all that thought you put into it . Would you be willing to go out with her again another time, even though she flaked out?