Originally posted by Enigmatik
I generally just go ahead and assume that chances are he's a dumbass, and he'll get himself in trouble somehow, like so many before him.
So refer to my post above.
Just like Stu I 've done it twice
I was an assistant at the time and I was lucky to not get into trouble because it was with other assistants . but it certainly spoiled the work environment .
Originally posted by djhaziel
but it certainly spoiled the work environment .
Yeah it usually does, as if work needs to be any more unpleasant.
I've never been involved with a coworker, lucky for me they were all fugly and boring, so there was no temptation there. But I've heard some horror stories.
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Aug-25-2010 07:19
Sushipunk
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First time, it was a bit awkward in the work environment, but she ended up quitting later anyway.
Second time was awesome. We'd nick off and have quickies all the time. We were together for quite a while, but it didn't work out because my UK visa ran out and I had to go back home, lol.
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Aug-25-2010 07:24
djhaziel
Snake Charmer
Registered: Jan 2007
Location: San Francisco
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Originally posted by Enigmatik
Yeah it usually does, as if work needs to be any more unpleasant.
I've never been involved with a coworker, lucky for me they were all fugly and boring, so there was no temptation there.
lucky you because the temptation is always there if you have hot females next to you and those afterwork happy hour drinks hmmmmmmm....
Originally posted by Renzo
Unless that ink swallows.
When I was in high school and uni I worked at Target and The Gap. Me and this other guy had a bet to see how many of the register girls we could bag (they were all in high school or just graduated), it was like shooting fish in a barrel. The guy was on point, I don't know how he did it. Every other week he was hooking up with another one, I got to two and stopped when it turned out one of them was 16 The EARLY side of 16 too
The Gap was a different story. We were all about the same age and generally all hung out with each other after work. Underage drinking fueled orgies everywhere, needless to say that was a crazy Christmas!
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Aug-25-2010 08:03
Yohan
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Registered: Jan 2004
Location: Kitchener, Ont, Soviet Canuckistan
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Originally posted by Enigmatik
Don't dip your pen in the company ink.
yeah. like all things, it's a risk management
imagine if the aftermath turns ugly, and if you banged the wrong person who'll try to screw you over at your job, it might turn bad
on the other hand, if you don't like your job, and you're looking for an another one, go for the gang bang
Originally posted by chinamon
not true. i say "ugh"
but i am a tranny.
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Originally posted by kotsy
lol colour me retarded
Aug-25-2010 08:05
Sushipunk
Flickering, I roam
Registered: Sep 2006
Location: Chateau Verdafloor
quote:
Originally posted by bas
The Gap was a different story. We were all about the same age and generally all hung out with each other after work. Underage drinking fueled orgies everywhere, needless to say that was a crazy Christmas!
I can imagine what was wearing the santa hat.
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Aug-25-2010 08:27
EarnYourKeep
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Registered: Dec 2001
Location: twentyonetwo
dont shit where i eat
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Aug-25-2010 12:34
Moral Hazard
Oppressing the 99%
Registered: Mar 2005
Location: with the 1%
Generally, I would recommend against it; notwithstanding, I have not always taken my own advise. Here's the thing; if you're just working some McJob to pay rent and intend on moving not only companies but industries then your potential risk is heavily mitigated; however, if your building a career in this industry (let alone the particular employer) then your best not to go slapping your cock across your colleagues asses. Reputations are important and you never know exactly what the fall out of banging a colleague will be.
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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down
Aug-25-2010 12:53
euphoria
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Registered: Sep 2003
Location: New York
If you don't care about your job, meaning you are willing to quit if things should go badly then go for it. Otherwise things may be kinda awkward when the girls find out about each other.
- girl gets with co-worker.
- girl gets knocked up
- guy turns out to be mega asshole who already shits on his 2 OTHER KIDS that she didn't know about.
- girl works at my store
- I sleep with girl not knowing of past [except having a kid, I have one too so no biggy].
- girl is annoying but managable.
Problem:
- ex guy is crazy. harasses girl at my store.
- I have to resist illegal means of handling dude; but I can handle since Im not with girl anymore.
end result:
- she's now a booty call when my options are few.
- ex guy still bothers her. not my problem.
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