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| quote: | Originally posted by ~C~
I agree with "it's my body, and my life", but it's not only you that would be affected by that choice. Is it not selfish on your part to take the easy way out, and inflict pain on those who love you, even if it is doctor assisted? There is always other alternatives to changing your life for the better, other than just giving up and choosing death. And I'm not religious, so my opinion on this has nothing to do with that. I'm just putting myself in my parents shoes... I think the only time this would be ok, is if the person was already dying. |
I absolutely agree with you that it's a bit of a selfish act as you would be inflicting pain on your loved ones. But sometimes I think it's okay to be selfish. I don't agree that there are ALWAYS other alternatives. Sometimes people are in pain on a daily basis and are just waiting to die. And while it may hurt your loved ones to see you go, it also hurts them to see you in so much pain. Pain that they themselves can't experience. How many times do people say "well I'm just glad they're not suffering anymore" when their loved ones pass on?
Edit: I did just notice that you also say that you think that the only time this would be okay would be if the person is already dying though.
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Sep-28-2010 13:40
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~C~
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Location: Toronto
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| quote: | Originally posted by Jem_hadar
Thank you. Was just going to comment this.
How is it fair to you, and not selfish of others, to expect you to live out your life in pain when all you want is to be released from it (death).
Thats essentially making you a slave to them and their wishes for you. How the hell is that fair to you!? |
I totally understand that point of view. I do. But again, in this situation, it should never be ALL about you? Because it isn't! I just know that my parents, even if it was doctor assisted suicide, would still think they failed me in some way. They would live their lives with all this guilt about it. They honestly, would never be the same again. So, it's ok to 'save' yourself, but leave your otherwise happy parents, to now live the rest of their lives in misery? Do none of you love your parents enough, to spare them that? I don't get that. Honestly, if your family signed off on it with you, then hey, go for it. Or if they have already passed away, also, go for it. I just would NEVER do that to them, not as long as they're on this earth. They would never understand.
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Sep-28-2010 14:23
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kaniz
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I think only for terminally ill patients that are basically waiting to die.
There is something to be said for the quality of life vs quantity of life. And, if I can choose between either spending 1 last month with my family, enjoying it - then passing away gracefully and not in pain, or - dragging out my life as long as possible, the only way I'm getting by is because my body is pumped full of tubes feeding me / taking away my waste and I'm barely conscious, and when I am conscious - I'm in extreme pain knowing that I'm simply waiting to die : give me assisted suicide.
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Sep-28-2010 14:30
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