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Originally posted by sylphin dieseld, maverick =), to awnser your question (after serious research).. =) (I just had to) (from Bryans's Rice-Boy Page..) ----

Ed.. you know i ain't a Rice Boy nor do i own a rice car. and who ever took the time to write that long rant obviously had way too much to think about. I guess she can also explain the large existence of hoochie mama Asian import models then .. :P

i juss think in the end guys are less picky than chicks as to the race of the person they're dating. i'm sure most guys here would indulge in hot booty if it came their way regardless of the girl's nationality. Chick on the other hand seem to be a bit more picky with the type of guy they hook up with..

I was convinced the other day by a friend to hit up the Puffy Ami Yumi concert at Opera House (yes.. i actually went, too bad i didn't scalp my tickets for 60 bux at the door). Anyways, the entire place was PACKED with white dudes and Asian fetishes. More than half the Asian chicks i saw there were dating some white guy. And how many white chicks did i see that nite dating an Asian guy.. zero haha. most of you are prolly like so what? well i'm already seeing someone now but again yea just an observation .. ;P

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i posted that mearly as a joke, but obviously as mav

I totally agree about white dudes with asian fetishes.. i know of several myself, they almost claims to be asian.. there is something totally wrong with that, in fact its worse I find than a white guy pretending to be black.

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I'm Russian myself, and know many other Russians well. What I've noticed is that Russian girls don't mind going out with non Russian guys, however Russian guys only want to go out with Russian girls.
Strange world.

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Very interesting topic guys. Maverick, I'm sorry you had such bad experiences with white girls but in general I don't think white girls are stuck up at all. But then again, I've never been to Money/Palazzo so I can't comment on those clubs.

You guys are right about your observation that more white guys (or afro americans) date asian chicks than white girls dating asian guys. I have friends who are white and black who would strictly date only asian chicks.
It's odd because I'm asian and I'm generally not attracted to asian girls because I find them to be more stuck up than any other race I know (true) Or Maybe it's just me...

I guess I'm one of the few asian guys who's been with more white girls than asian chicks. I find them to be so friendly and nice as hell. I've nothing but positive experiences with white girls. I notice when I hit clubs I always mingle with the white folks moreso than the asians. I don't deliberately do that, it just happens that way.
It's weird you guys said you havn't seen as much asian guys with white girls because I've never had a problem finding a "white" girl to be with and many of my asian friends have gone out with many white chicks as well. I know of lots of asian guys who are attracted to white girls.
Maybe it's all about your attitude. Just be yourself. I'm pretty shy when it comes to chatting up with girls at clubs
but for me it's always been the white girls who would come and start a conversation with me than the asian girls (or maybe it's because I don't pay as much attention to the asian girls as much) Don't really know, but I've always find white girls so much nicer.

Anyways, Bring on em Whities!!!

hehe I'm glad that we were able to discuss this matter in a "mature" fashion....I was afraid that one guy was gonna get offended and start cussing someone else..

yeah..I see all your points..

haha I gotta meet you trancewave..I'm actually just like you, I guess I might seem to be "white washed" and I did only like white girls for a point in my life but now I think i've matured and opened my mind to any and all race...

bottom line, it don't matter on the race, just the girl and waht's she's like

peace all

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Quite frankly, to be honest, meeting girl in a club is a big no no. They are usually stuck up/drunk and only do what their friends tell them too. A girl might like you but then their friends say "oh no he's ugly.. bla bla bla" type of shit. I've seen it all the time. You have better chance of meeting a GOOD Girl in school (college, uni, HS, etc.) than you do in a club. Plus, I think Meat Markets died in the early 90s I think lol

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Originally posted by Trancewave You guys are right about your observation that more white guys (or afro americans) date asian chicks than white girls dating asian guys. I have friends who are white and black who would strictly date only asian chicks. It's odd because I'm asian and I'm generally not attracted to asian girls because I find them to be more stuck up than any other race I know (true) Or Maybe it's just me... I guess I'm one of the few asian guys who's been with more white girls than asian chicks. I find them to be so friendly and nice as hell. I've nothing but positive experiences with white girls. I notice when I hit clubs I always mingle with the white folks moreso than the asians. I don't deliberately do that, it just happens that way. It's weird you guys said you havn't seen as much asian guys with white girls because I've never had a problem finding a "white" girl to be with and many of my asian friends have gone out with many white chicks as well. I know of lots of asian guys who are attracted to white girls. Maybe it's all about your attitude. Just be yourself. I'm pretty shy when it comes to chatting up with girls at clubs but for me it's always been the white girls who would come and start a conversation with me than the asian girls (or maybe it's because I don't pay as much attention to the asian girls as much) Don't really know, but I've always find white girls so much nicer.

If any of you guys are ever downtown just walk around the Eaton center and count how many White-guy & Asian girl couples and compare them to the number of Asian-guy & White-girl couples.. :]

I always find the Eaton center an interesting place to observe interracial dating. and since i go to school around there I pretty much see this stuff on a daily basis. The vast majority of these couples i see always tend to be a white-guy with an Asian girl. If i see some white girl with a guy it's usually 4/5 with a white guy or 1/5 with a black guy. very rarely do i see a white girl dating an Asian guy. I have no idea why this is ?? Any white girls out there wanna comment ?? hehe..

and Trancewave I agree with you on a lot of points. When i was back in highschool I used to find the Asian girls like super bitchy and stuck up. So hard to hav convos with them, white girls always seemed to be a lot more down to earth and easy going and (imho) less materialistic. not to say none of them are bitchy but again juss from my observation. over time that's changed i guess things are a lot different in university everyone seems to be a lot more down to earth regardless of race. i guess ppl are just more concerned about life and grades and less about trivial things like popularity and bling.

and I agree with you that a lotta Asian guys are attracted to white girls but most white girls i know seem seldomly interested in Asian guys. Like i would go out with a white girl but most of the chicks i;ve gone out with in my lifetime (including my own girlfriend) is Asian. But my girlfriend on the other hand has gone out with more white guys than Asian guys. So again it's stuff like this that brings me back to the point that most guys are pretty carefree as to the kinda girl they date, but chicks on the other hand seem to prefer certain types of guys (usually ones their own colour) & a lot more picky. Unless of course the girl is Asian then she'll date a white guy .. maybe except a Korean girl :P

(ps. if ur a white guy and dating a Korea girl.. props, ur REAL good :] )

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(*** WARNING, MAY BE OFFENSIVE TO SOME - IF SO, TAKE IT EASY ***)

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Originally posted by Maverick I just wanna BALANCE the field alittle

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Originally posted by Trancewave Anyways, Bring on em Whities!!!

Maybe if you weren't so obsessed with sex...

OK I'm going to be as frank as possible.

What kind of "white" women are you looking for? I find that white women tend to be more "in demand" (oh god that sounds so bad) than other women. This is a mere issue of personal taste and opinion, but white women tend to be more attractive to the male population as a whole. SO if you're looking for sex with a white woman, and you're asian (I told you I'd be frank), there are a few problems.

Let me warn you, this is going to sound really bad and VERY racist but I do not harbour racist feelings; these are just observations I have made on this subject matter. Now, SINCE we are obviously (see quotes above) talking about the "sex-oriented" fields of relationships (which is what 99.9% of people who go hitting on members of the opposite sex in clubs are looking for - if not, then what the hell are you doing in a club looking for a more fruitful relationship?!) - I say, since we are talking about the sex, there are some issues that stand in the way. Namely: (***winces as this is typed***) when looking for sex women are looking for large penises and in this regard there is a basic human subconscious perception/belief - [taller men = larger penises = better sex] while the opposite holds true: [shorter men = smaller penises = worse sex]. Now, since many asians are veritably shorter than their white women "targets", this deals a great blow to their aspirations. Another issue, (perhaps even MORE racist sounding than the last one) is that unfortunately many non-asians (whites, blacks, doesn't matter) find that asians are very similar-looking and for a woman looking for sex this doesn't cut it. She wants some muscle-bound, hot dude and not some generic male.

So if you're asian and looking for a white woman to get laid with, keep those two unfortunate issues in mind. Of course, there are exceptions etc. but let me just stop talking about this subject matter because I am VERY much against this kind of relationship. So if you were offended by the above just calm down and start looking for things other than sex instead. All of your problems in this issue will then be solved.

NOW, there is ANOTHER kind of relationship in which sex is NOT the DOMINANT FACTOR. And in THIS kind of relationship, "anything goes" as is the popular saying. There is one caveat though - when looking for true love, you don't "focus in" on a specific "type" of man/woman. In fact you shouldn't be looking at all. If you claim you're "looking for true love" (or your mind claims that) then what you are really (consciously or not) looking for is the sex.

As far as real love is concerned, it just happens. There is no search, no demand, no club nights hitting on men/women. It just happens when you least expect it. Key point here: it won't matter what race of man/woman you fall in love with is, you will love them for other reasons!!! In the end, "race" is a term I feel we should abolish. We are all people and belong to one COMMON "race" - humanity.

So I think that men in general should stop trying to "focus in" on women, whether they are white or not. In fact you shouldn't even be trying to focus on women at all, relationship-wise. You should just let it happen. Lead your life normally, and it will happen, love will happen. Then it will be the most beautiful thing in the world. If you consciously look for it, and you "find" it, then it will not be love, not true love.

Of course, if you are just looking for the sex, let me just add in one more thing. For those who are "looking for white women": it actually doesn't matter if you're asian or not. "Hot" white women who are preoccupied with sex are usually VERY selective. It doesn't matter if you're white or asian or black. If you don't fit their criteria (physical characteristics, temporal possessions etc.) then you're out of luck. This may sound very discriminatory as far as women are concerned, but most women who go clubbing to "find relationships" and are generally viewed upon as "hot" tend to think this way.

I hope everyone who reads this is not offended. If you are then it was not my intention and there really is no reason you should be offended. I just felt I would like to clarify this matter a bit, I hope I've helped. Cheers!

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... i'd just like to add that if you're only looking for sex, and say you really wanted some, you can always look for the nearest fat/ugly girl at a club and pick her up, provided you're an average guy (not fat/ugly as well), her (hot) friends will give the ugly friend the nod (and then laugh at her behind her her) and you'll be set, just serve a couple drinks and bring her home

(btw, i do NOT speak of experience)

hope I didn't offend anyone here... but honnestly its true, when looking at a group of girls, they'll always be the one that tries (really hard) to fit in, but cant

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oh my god Sylphin...haha...that's mean but I can't say it's not true....but I really have never considered that cuz I wouldn't do something like that

as for bodhichitta, I see what you're saying, I'm a reasonable man and not gonna be offended/pissed but yeah..I guess girls who just want sex would select people for her own pleasure

but I don't know why you guys jumped to sex all of a sudden, I wasn't really tlaking about that, I think that I was talking about relationships more than sex...

but yeah...no matter....like you said, just live your life and let it flow

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Originally posted by Maverick but I don't know why you guys jumped to sex all of a sudden, I wasn't really tlaking about that, I think that I was talking about relationships more than sex...

Yeah man I'm sorry I misunderstood you. A few hours after I wrote my previous reply I looked back at it and thought "WOAH that's pretty harsh there dude." You have to understand I wrote it at 7:00 a.m. (after getting up at 5:00) Usually I don't meddle in this sort of thing - everyone has a right to their own sex life and their own relationships.

I hope I didn't sound too "preachy" or hateful or anything.