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Girls that get bought drinks normally will NOT want to be with you and whatnot because the first thing you've done is conceded to her. Girls in general don't want a man they can walk all over

i think this is a really silly male assumption. and you are reading way too much into it. most girls i know, are flattered if someone buys them a drink. they dont automatically think "oh shit! hes too easy".

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"hmm he hasn't bought me a drink, why not? All the other guys have tonight".

you must hang out with a lot of egotistical, pretentious girls.

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Originally posted by sothis you must hang out with a lot of egotistical, pretentious girls.

welcome to the fucking real world

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welcome to the fucking real world

a world you choose on your own account.

there are lots of non egotistical, non pretentious girls out there. next time you are at a club, dont go for the girl with the shortest skirt and 2 hours worth of makeup and hair preparation. (shrug, im one of them). talk to them, dont always choose the ridiculously done up fake girls. then you might meet some of those non pretentious girls im talking about.

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Originally posted by DuMonde TrAnCeR i always find a nice drink of gamma-hydrobutryte works well with the ladies

ROFL! The funny thing is Ste, the ladies in the clubs that we both go to would probably prefer a glass of GHB to anything else

what i think is so hilarious is that several guys in this thread (GUYS, not girls) are acting like they know exactly whats up with women... whats especially funny is you actually think a woman stops and has a 5 minute dialog with herself, totally reading into something as stupid as someone buying them a drink!

NEWSFLASH!!!
dont read into it so much, guys. just because you buy someone a drink, doesnt mean the woman will think you arent good enough or whatever other stupid shit people are saying they will do. its not a contest, it isnt a mating dance... so please, for the love of god, stop thinking its some super complicated thing. and christ, stop being so egotistical. just because you buy someone a drink, doesnt mean she automatically thinks you want to have sex with her. most women i know accept graciously, maybe have a chat, but definitely dont do any of these silly things you boys are talking about.

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On the other hand, if I'm talking to a woman that I'm interested in, she expects me to prove that I'm a worthy man to have sex with (a man who's normal, honest, smart and brave). Offering a drink immediately proves that I'm unworthy

this comment made me laugh out loud. please tell me you arent being serious.

next time i go anywhere ill remember that as a woman, im supposed to size up any guy who does any nice thing for me as "is he a good person to have sex with" material. *laughs more*

yep, two men who wrote books certainly know everything about women, right? rofl. unless they used to be a female and got a sex change, im sorry, i dont buy it. you should learn your facts from women themselves instead of guys who think they know what they are talking about

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Originally posted by DuMonde TrAnCeR i always find a nice drink of gamma-hydrobutryte works well with the ladies

hahaha

Sothis everyone is obviously different, and I don't like to think these are ROCK SOLID rules, we're not tying to make a stereotype ....BUT...more often than not this proves true..


also these aren't "5 min conversations" that go on in your head they're automatic repsonses which do affect how you act whether you notice it or not (not everyone will react the same way). This is PSYCHOLOGY, laugh if you want but this stuff is a good general guide....and are you saying you know all women because of how you would act?

Don't be a hypocrite, and I'm not flaming just adding my opinion, no hard feelings pls.

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perhaps you think its a good general guide, but i think its laughable. you are right, i am not saying all women act the way i am saying... but it sure as hell sounds like the majority opinion of all the guys in the room is that most women A) think you want to fuck her if you buy her a drink and B) are sizing you up... which i highly disagree with, as a woman.

all im saying, is rather than making up these opinions and believing what you read in books, maybe its better to learn what women think by talking to them, rather than making all these silly assumptions.

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Originally posted by igottaknow I asume ur talkin bout that date rape drug ---^

of course not!

*rubs hands evilly*

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