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Originally posted by Looney4Clooney she isn't really like that. I woudn't be with someone like that. She is great. DOn't know if I could do better.

read the article i linked dude

look i'm just looking for insight from actual people that have dealt with this. Like that old guy trancelover. Nows your time,

ANother thing is that she kinda keeps me sane. Grounded. Which is important. She is my best friend too. So it isn't some small thing. Consider us married basically. So its kinda a big thing.

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Alright, well I do wish you good luck with whatever you choose to do and with whatever happens.

it isn't luck.


it is a decision, do one line of work that can result in my dream job, but at the cost of a relationship, or just do what i'm doing now and have the relatinoshp

can't someone find the nash equilibrium for me?

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Stick with the career. I think it'll stick with you longer than she will tbh.

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Originally posted by tehlord Stick with the career. I think it'll stick with you longer than she will tbh.

That's my opinion too. That's why I posted the link to "girls are depreciating assets". I mean, I think with relationships you just can't force them. If it feels like it is going south, it is going south.

but what about say someone you might consider someone the only person youv'e really got along with like that. I'm not gonna say soul mate because that is m4b talk but i mean is there a middle ground for those that have had to do this sort of thing ? I mean our relationship is great except i don't give her enough time.

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Originally posted by Looney4Clooney but what about say someone you might consider someone the only person youv'e really got along with like that. I'm not gonna say soul mate because that is m4b talk but i mean is there a middle ground for those that have had to do this sort of thing ? I mean our relationship is great except i don't give her enough time.

I honestly don't think you'll be able to find that middle ground. You're one of those people (as far as I can tell on here) that's all about themselves. That's great when you're trying to take over the world, but not so great when you want to pay attention to somebody else. Nothing wrong with being that way, it just has it's costs.

Would she be happier if you gave her the time you give to all of us?

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dude. speaking from experience, its a phase. Give her all you have and then she won't need more. Just play into it. Otherwise you'll hear the "you never pay attention to me" bull shit that some girlfriends say when they think they're neglected. It'll pass but until then, put everything down.

naw i really would say i am quite the opposite. I rarely think about myself. As if my soft golden middle is obvious under the silly badboy rhetoric that is obviously not real. But ya, if i don't like you, i won't do a think for you, but if i do, I will go out of my way to help you out. Like shit , you said you needed hardrives, i was ready to mail a bunch to you for free.

Naw you have my douchery all wrong. I mean i bet you wouldn't think i am a strong proponent for women's rights. I give alot of money to organizations that help the mentally ill, my character is i don't know, lets just say , I probably think about what i do and how that makes people feel more than most. I mean i'm the kinda guy that if i were to rape someone, you can guarantee that i will use lots of lube, a condom and tell her she is gorgeous. So fuck you .

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Last edited by Looney4Clooney on Feb-17-2012 at 20:32

i'm afraid the next girl i bring into my home she'll be shocked on how much gear i have. Any of that happen to you guys?