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Originally posted by TranceKitten LOL....For some reason I get the feeling that everyone here is hunting...is that so??

Ummmmmmmmmm that's partly true, but I have heard time and time again that if you look for it, it won't come to you, so I'm not looking. Just if it happens it happens.

And don't worry man, things will clear up and then you'll find a girl who is worthy of you.

Durafei .. take this advanatage to feel free again .. i always notice that the 'opportunities' always come up whnever ur already dating someone .. :P

SO just remember the great things about being SINGLE but remember that ur good enuff that SOMEONE wanted you at some point so you can't feel like you've been rejected. And psst.. whenever ur ready to bounce back from all this, i hear Asian girls are really into white guys right now! :]

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durafei, i have a solution: we go out partying again soon!

seriously though, don't think about it too much, or it'll consume you. just take in stride, maybe she was antsy, maybe something just changed with her, who knows. but you do know that you are now a stronger person because of this. maybe not right now, but you will be in the future, for sure.

also, i don't think your feelings for her will ever be totally gone. rather, they'll stay with you for a while, but not to remind you of what she did to you, but rather, what you two did together. obivously, if your in a relationship for two years, something has to be right for that amount of time. it may sound cheesy, i know, but 'tis better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all'

btw, you said she told you friday? that must've been after purple room, cuz you were having a hell of a good time! at least she had the decency to wait, i guess. oh well, just do what feels right. don't sell yourself short. everyday, look into your mirror and say 'i am one sexy biznatch' ... well, it's works for me...

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Originally posted by mot10n look into your mirror and say 'i am one sexy biznatch' ... well, it's works for me...

thatz rite .. gotta say it again .. if u were good enuff for one person, then u gotta be good enuff for somebody else ! i'm sure u'd think it worse if u never got hit on !! ouch ..

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Unfortunately it's not about me being able to find another girl. I still love her, and don't even want no other girl

Oh well.. time is my friend in this case, as I hear it can heal all kinds of wounds.

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time is my friend in this case, as I hear it can heal all kinds of wounds.

one exception: age

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Originally posted by Durafei Unfortunately it's not about me being able to find another girl. I still love her, and don't even want no other girl Oh well.. time is my friend in this case, as I hear it can heal all kinds of wounds.

Bully for you for being positive man. You'll do fine. No worries... shit I wish I handled the bad like that.

Cheers,
Fats

alcohol in large quantities has helped me wash away my problems!

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Originally posted by Lek alcohol in large quantities has helped me wash away my problems!

LOL! that was already suggested by his Russian buddies! IT'S ALL ABOUT VODKA! JAH! LOL!

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Sometimes people wake up all of a sudden and realize that they dont want to be in a relationship, not only with you, but with anyone....whether it was a life changing experience or just a hit in the head, it happens to all of us at some point....
its wierd, because sometimes you just can't change how you feel, and sometimes it hurts more to be with that person knowing that you would be happier without them.....
i myself have committed that crime not long ago, and it makes you feel so bad because you know how much that other person is hurting inside, but soon you ll know that they'll hate you for doing what you did.....because maybe they dont understand why..

Iliya, in all what i am trying to say is, your young, have so much to experience ahead of you....
take this as an opportunity to learn more about yourself, and figure out what YOU want to do in life without having anyone else hold you back.....
sometimes we make sacrifices without realizing it because we are in love, then later regret it when that love fades away......

these next few weeks do stuff that makes you happy, and keep your self busy...... try something new, and go PARTY not just to meet new chicks but to get yourself out of your house.......and be around people that make you feel good about yourself.....

hope these words will help

Maria

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Originally posted by Durafei Unfortunately it's not about me being able to find another girl. I still love her, and don't even want no other girl Oh well.. time is my friend in this case, as I hear it can heal all kinds of wounds.

do some online gaming or throw a 48 hours LAN party.. i find blowing up shit on computer games takes the mind away from worries ...

plus doing guy kinda things ie. LAN parties, with other guys iz good for you .. :]

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