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Originally posted by Nadi You guys say kids these days don't have any respect these days, what you fail to realize is that most of the "punks" get there ass handed to them daily. Beating doenst teach fear, it breeds resentment and can damage someones emotional well being. When your parents start kicking your ass hardcore and say "I'm doing this because I love you" are they teaching you not to do it again, or that violence is a way of showing affection. Most of the people who abuse there wives were abused as kids, it may teach the kids to be tough, but it just confuses and scares the kids.

ok, child abuse and spousal abuse is a totally different story. if you come home, drunk as a skunk and wail on your family for no reason, that's wrong. but giving a kid a whack on the ass for doing something bad is no problem.

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Originally posted by mr. poopyhead ok, child abuse and spousal abuse is a totally different story. if you come home, drunk as a skunk and wail on your family for no reason, that's wrong. but giving a kid a whack on the ass for doing something bad is no problem.

Maybe, studies say that there related I dunno. I still dont think that violence solves anything.

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Originally posted by mr. poopyhead hahaha... see? beatings make fun stories later in life.. man.. i could never run from my mom. i only tried once, and i failed horribly. then i got double beats for running, hahaha. another funny story is when my brother got beats, i'd always start cracking up... then my mom would wipe the smile off my face pretty quick, =P. ow...

hahaha omg, sounds like your childhood was full of fun stories...ouch

every kid needs one good beating when growing up.
thats not called violence, its called discipline.
im against violence too, but that would encompass abusive beatings

"Raise your child as you would raise a dog and you may end up with either."

The child not intelligent enough to be reasoned with is probably not intelligent enough to discern between behaviorally corrective voilence and purely malicious acts of violence. Stricter child abuse laws are the direct result of massive amounts of research that almost universally indicate the harmful effect of a parent committing acts of violence against their child.

Of course, maybe the tens of thousands of researchers who carefully conducted such investigations over several decades are totally wrong. But that doesn't mean we ought to try to beat some sense into them.

kids need some beating seriously i see how these brats are raised nowadays it pisses me off how impolite and cry baby they are. i'm not saying beath the crap out of them but the occasional slap in the face or spank in the butt is good for them

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My dad was strict as but fair. He'd tell me not to do something as a kid or i'd get a spank. I did it and i got a spank

After about 10 of those i realised he actually meant business so i stopped fucking around. Kids are smart as, they test the limits to see what they can get away with and see what response they get,then pull as much shit as they know they can get away with. It's called child psychology

I'm gonna be strict but fair with my kids too, i want them to be happy but grow up with morals and self-respect so i'm gonna punish them when i have to, if that means spanking them to get a point home i will.

so when they're you have to give them a little then they're but afterwards

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Everyone in their life has gotten a spanking or something from their parents for doing something bad. Maybe the nun is getting charged because the parents thought it was their job to spank their kids. By the way... did anyone see that lady who beat and shook her kid in a Kohl's parking lot? It was crazy, she was hitting her kid in the head and face and shaking her... and she was caught on surveilance camera that was in the parking lot then caught by the police a week later. No one should beat the shit out of their kids but when a child gets a spanking do you think it really hurts them? Prolly not its just the fact that they were hit and thats wat makes them cry.

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Originally posted by Arbiter "Raise your child as you would raise a dog and you may end up with either." The child not intelligent enough to be reasoned with is probably not intelligent enough to discern between behaviorally corrective voilence and purely malicious acts of violence. Stricter child abuse laws are the direct result of massive amounts of research that almost universally indicate the harmful effect of a parent committing acts of violence against their child. Of course, maybe the tens of thousands of researchers who carefully conducted such investigations over several decades are totally wrong. But that doesn't mean we ought to try to beat some sense into them.

you can research all you like and do as many studies to prove the harm in corporal punishment. but the real evidence is all around us. take a look around and look at what the decline in discipline has done. i worked at a summer camp for 5 years and i can tell you, kids ain't the same anymore. a lot of them are spoiled brats who could use a good beating.

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Originally posted by Tranzmit After about 10 of those i realised he actually meant business so i stopped fucking around.

exaclty the reason kids need a spanking..
just no slaps

Theres nothing wrong with a good spanking here and there. Back in the OLDE day, kids got beat all the time and nothing happened. Nowadays, its wrong for kids to be beaten, and now you see kids bringing guns to school and killing other ppl before high school.

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i blame MTV, mtv just makes all usa children more ignorant
its definetly true