Honestly, I was pretty easy going with him but it just reached a point (maybe I changed?) where I just wasn't going to put any more time in to someone that just doesn't reciprocate. Life's too short to be let down by people that will never understand your differences.

It sounds like you reached that point with your buddy too.

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Originally posted by Jon_Snow Pasta is your problem

it is. its getting harder and harder to keep the pasta off

I've been substituting quinoa for it. At home I don't trust myself with it if I cook a pound of pasta I'm eating a pound.

This friend of mine likes pasta. Bolognese.

thats a true pasta lover. and the fact that you know what type of pasta he likes makes you a real true friend.

say it like you mean it

Bola-NAAAY-ZEE

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It's only unfair if you are not being yourself.

I don't want to sound harsh but I'd be extremely confused if I were him. I wouldn't even be hurt, I'd probably think "what a girl" and shrug it off - and think you're too "high maintenance".

Why wouldn't I care?

Although I'm very extroverted, I'm not exactly gregarious: I love meeting/talking to people - I'd even talk to trees if I could - but I hardly ever go out with two or more friends. It's easier (fewer people to make arrangements with) and more pleasant (it's just easier to pick a common interest with one person than with two), and there's more room for diversity (it's easier to see different friends than different groups of friends). And I'm not an IM kind of guy because, when I'm not around people, I'd rather work.

Why would I give up on you?

You remind me of a friend I no longer care for, though I should admit he's an extreme case due to his paranoid jealousy.

I go out with most friends once every couple of months (or even less often), but I'd see him once every other week or so. Yet, he'd be incredibly annoyed if I went "too long" without seeing him. I had enough of him when he confronted me because "I wouldn't pick up my phone when he saw me going out with a mutual friend, a clear sign I was avoiding him to be with her". Oddly enough, not even my wife would throw such a tantrum. He also threw a fit when I couldn't go out with him on his birthday because my wife and I had a series of job interviews early that day and on the following morning.

This is mostly because he does nothing whatsoever with his life, so he doesn't understand why other people can't go out with him as often as he can. As a result, I've witnessed him cut ties with every single person I met through him. My turn to join them.

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Oh Lira. Sounds like he was your gay lover and you didn't know it. You have relationship problems of a girl. I think it's because of your curly hair. I'd seriously consider getting it straightened and get a more macho career while you're at it.

Pasta is good for your diet. I would use to have some before going to the gym when i was built like a mofo, Melly has a pic of me when i was lifting for comp