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| quote: | Originally posted by InAcoma
dont see anything wrong with it
its a womens body..its her decision |
yeah and a man had a small contribution too....
under certain circumstances like rape, economics, single mum etc sure its her descision but otherwise the guy should have some input too! there was an episode of 'the secret life of us' where alex had an abortion, it was an unwanted pregnancy, she didn't want a baby then so ok she had an abortion. but the guy responsible for the pregnancy had no input at all!! she sent him an EMAIL saying basically 'im pregnant, having an abortion, how u doin?' that really pissed me off. all i can say is if i found out a girl i had a relationship with was pregnant because of me and i got an email saying shes having an abortion i would be pissed off. even if it both people agree to it, the fact that she didn't at least discuss it with him pissed me off.
i dont think it is 'immoral' or 'wrong' to have an abortion, and i dont think people should be pushing those beliefs onto others, on any topic. sure i think having a baby would be great and an important step in your life but if the couple (or single!) dont feel its the right time or they/she couldnt support a child then i dont see why they cant decide to have an abortion. of course it would be sad and you would probably feel horrible for a while but you would know that you made the right choice under the circumstances you are in.
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