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Originally posted by tranceDJ Chillout room definetly needs a sub-section for love advice me thinks

maybe it'll pass. maybe everyone is depressed cause it is winter.
or something.

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Originally posted by butterfly maybe it'll pass. maybe everyone is depressed cause it is winter. or something.

im not depressed .. i love the winter .. skiing, sitting by the fire place at night, hot chocotale (with a lot of Vandermint added), laying in a warm bed with a girl watching the snow fall .. winter is way more romantic then summer.

summer = gross sweaty sex and smelly sweaty people

if ur cold in the winter, u can always put on more clothes and get warmer, but if u hot in the summer...ur f*cked .. cant get nude .. well at least not in Jersey.

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Originally posted by kirbtastic im not depressed .. i love the winter .. skiing, sitting by the fire place at night, hot chocotale (with a lot of Vandermint added), laying in a warm bed with a girl watching the snow fall .. winter is way more romantic then summer. summer = gross sweaty sex and smelly sweaty people if ur cold in the winter, u can always put on more clothes and get warmer, but if u hot in the summer...ur f*cked .. cant get nude .. well at least not in Jersey.

sex is always sweaty and requires showering for me. i'd prefer to do it in the summer when my feet don't get cold.

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Originally posted by sothis regardless, i wouldnt read so much into it, stk. just because someone says they care about you, doesnt always imply that they want you back or that they are in love with you. if i found out an ex boyfriend of mine was really depressed and having serious issues, i would probably give him a call and say a similar thing, and let him know i was there for him if he needed me. not because i want him back, but because hes a human being, and so am i, and especially if you date someone, there will always be that element of a friendship there. so, i would want to be there as a friend. so yea. i wouldnt be quick to jump to conclusions that she wants you again. in addition, i agree with what a few people have said about how it ended once, so you should move on and find a new person. it did end for a reason, you should learn from the situation and not look back.

Well said!

She phoned you up because she still cares about you, but it doesn't mean she wants to restart things. You say it was the original breakup that contributed to your depression, going there again would be a bad idea, at least until you're fully recovered.

I've been in a similar situation, and I later found out that she was just "worried" because she thought the depression was her fault (which it wasn't) and didn't want that on her mind. So it could be the same situation with u. Personally, I have NEVER stayed friends with exes after break-ups. Less of a chance of getting back together with her means less of a chance of one of us getting hurt.

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If you get back with her you will probably have feelings for her for a week or two and will remember why you two broke up in the first place. Right now your just feeling that you want to feel like how it was when you were with her before but once you do get that feeling back you take it for granted and lose feelings all over. I was in the same situation and after a few weeks it just wasnt there anymore. I mean you already know everything about her... the fun of getting to know about a new girl is not there anymore, you already tapped that ass... it will feel good for a few weeks because you havent hit it in awhile but you start to relize you had it before and other guys had it before so its not that special no more. Basically if the girl is not 1 of a kind and a REALLY good gf, getting back with your exes really dont work out. I mean you broke up with them for a reason.

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Originally posted by kirbtastic ill tell u one thing though .. theres a good chance u can hit it again though .. every time my ex calls me and says something like that i end up smashing that ass with in the week .. and my ex girlfriend hates me.

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absolutely nothing. you can relax now

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Originally posted by kirbtastic ill tell u one thing though .. theres a good chance u can hit it again though .. every time my ex calls me and says something like that i end up smashing that ass with in the week .. and my ex girlfriend hates me.

rotfl.. that sounds soo 'nice'! hahahah

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Originally posted by kirbtastic .. every time my ex calls me and says something like that i end up smashing that ass with in the week .. and my ex girlfriend hates me.

'Smashing that ass' is my new all-time favorite phrase for hooking up.

'Housing' used to be tops on the list.

LMAO.

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Originally posted by RedLunatik just tap that ass again and move on

No comment... you said it all!

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Originally posted by butterfly sex is always sweaty and requires showering for me. i'd prefer to do it in the summer when my feet don't get cold.

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