I guess there comes a point where you just grow out of it. I haven't, I know for a fact there are so many times that i have missed out on being with tons of girls (that is dating, not sleeping with them) cause I have always been too shy and modest (sp) to start a conversation or make a move (not sex). I don't want to sound cheesy and i don't like approaching some random girl just because she looks good because she probably gets that all the time and that would just make me "every other guy." the only time i have approached girls is when i had some thing in common with them, something real to talk about and not "hi, i lost my number....., can i have yours?" "Damn bitch, DAT ASS IS FINE"

my advice to you, look for something (other than looks) that you like about her. and maybe use that to open conversation.... both in the same section at the cd store..... talk about music..... she is eating.... how is the food? pickin out shoes, you sister has those ones..... etc....

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i hate people who obviously try to chat me up. it makes me feel uncomfortable and i generally try and escape as soon as possible.

sing!
to humiliate them + urself
but its well worth it

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Originally posted by *HaRRy* i hate people who obviously try to chat me up. it makes me feel uncomfortable and i generally try and escape as soon as possible.

see, that's what I'm worried about
it doesn't help that I have absolutley no experience in this matter

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Just go for it. I agree with Prototrance's response. I'm shy as hell (in terms of going up to a girl out of the blue), sometimes I approach a girl and say hi, othertimes I don't. The messed up thing is if the girl is interested (ie I get looks, smiles etc) I don't know what to do. Just kind of freeze. It's as if I'm in a certain type of mood I will go for it, if not then I won't. (I don't even know what determines if I will or won't take action). It's wierdness!

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i dont get why "talking to girls" threads keep popping up lol. the question should be "Do i have testicles, or are those jellybeans" nut up and do it, you know the reason you arent talking to them isnt because you havent found the golden line of all powerfulness that drops them to their knees with an O face, its cz youre a fuckin pussy, to be blunt. which makes no sense either. because if you realize that you are a loser, what the fuck else do you have to lose? some hottie that wasnt going to talk to you anyways? fuck.

"mock dialogue"

person#1: Hello, im logic, can i help you?

Person#2: No, fuck off, you make life scary(er)

say

"hey baby. Fancy doing the growl with me?" ... if it dont work, brag to your mates that an anonymous girl bitch slapped you

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Originally posted by beema lol wtf...TA is fucked! arrgh...ok, anyways, here is what I posted...but didnt show up for whatever reason: I just got back from lunch there was this girl sitting next to us, like a chair away, and she was sooooooooooooo hot Absolutley beautiful, cute...perfect for me, just my type and she was sitting by herself Im sure everyone knows how extremely rare it is to catch a hottie sitting by themselves. anyways I'm kicking myself now cause I didn't say anything to her. I have no idea what to say in situations like that tho She wasn't looking up (looked like she was reading/doing some work), so I couldn't initiate a convo with eye-contact or a smile or anything wtf do you say in those situations without it sounding blatently obvious that you are drooling over her??

Sometimes we can make the simplest things so complicated. The easiest thing to do is just walk up and say "hello." You'll know imediately if she's interested or not by the way she responds. And don't be shy about it, the worst thing that can happen is that she would be uniterested. It's not like you're going to be executed if she doesn't like you.

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Originally posted by *HaRRy* i hate people who obviously try to chat me up. it makes me feel uncomfortable and i generally try and escape as soon as possible.

You're too intelligent to fall for that though. And ur pretty too you know. Don't I know you from somwhere?

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Originally posted by *HaRRy* i hate people who obviously try to chat me up. it makes me feel uncomfortable and i generally try and escape as soon as possible.

So just how the fuck are we meant to break through armour like that???

Even if a bloke isnt using shite chat up lines it may be obvious that he is chatting you up with just general conversation.

You would tell him to get lost because he found you attractive....... take interest from the opposite sex as a compliment........ Shit.........

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I'd say just whip out your man-hood........and show her your ready to satisfy.....


I'm useless in those situations aswell.....But in thought, how could saying hello to someone be a bad thing?

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Originally posted by fr0st But in thought, how could saying hello to someone be a bad thing?

Coz some birds are so far up their own colons that they believe that only Brad Pitt lookalikes and rich twats can talk to them, let alone get anywhere near them physically. In fact that describes about 85% of women these days I think.

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