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| quote: | | We cannot take holiday together (and this summer is the first in 10 years) she cannot fly, she is wheelchair bound when she goes out, and that is when she does, but she is the light of my life, and a inspiration. When i feel bad, i just think about what it is life for her, and i know my problems are in no league to her. |
Don't think of me as insensitive, but I must ask you a few things. You are saying that when you feel bad, you think of her and see how your problems are irrelevant to her's. But, that means her life is constantly in worse situation than your ever was in. If your life was like that, would you consider it worth living? Would you rather spend 70 years being unable to take care of yourself and unable to do most things other people consider to be normal and entertaining, or not spend them at all?
Imo it all depends on the severity of the disablement, and since I haven't seen your sister, I can't say much. There are people however, born with even greater defects than your sister, and there comes a point where the opportunities and joys of life are outweighted by the problems and pain. So in my oppinion, also as an answer to Renegade, I think it's better to have an abortion than a life full of suffering.
| quote: | The thing we all need to keep in mind about abortion, in my opinion, is not the concept of humanity, but that of personhood. A fetus, especially in the earlier stages of gestation, is no more a person than than the hair on your head, the nails on the end of your fingers or the sperm cells in your testicles.If the preservation/sanctity of human life was the primary reason to outlaw abortion, then surely any ejaculation wilfully entered into would constitute the death of a potential - and potential is the key phrase here - 250 million or so people. Afterall, anyone of those sperm cells wasted (by hand or by deed ) could have devoloped into a "person", so why should I consider the potentiality of a zygote (merely the conjoined cells of two different individuals) any differently? The zygote/early stage fetus is no more a person than the combined sperm/ovum in our collective bodies, so why should a termination of the "potentiality of personhood" of the former be morally reprehensible, where the latter is not?
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It is different, because while you hair and nails have the same genetic code as the rest of you, therefore they already are a part of a human being, while the fetus is a new although yet unformed human being. When you lose a hair, another one just like it will grow, but when you kill a fetus, another one like it won't be born. The sperm you mentioned doesn't have a potential to become a person, it only has potential to become part of the person. Besides, no matter how well you nurture a sperm cell, or a cell from your hair, it will never develop into a genuine person, while the new zygote has that ability.
| quote: | | For me, a fetus can only be considered to be a "person" once its dependence on its mother has "expired" so to speak - that is, when it is no longer biologically dependant on the womb in which it has been gestating. This is a very hard line to draw though, because - prior to the undertaking of the abortion - it is difficult to say in the post 24 week mark whether the fetus is capable of surviving independantly of its mother or not. For instance, there was a story in Melbourne a few years ago (which, from memory, lead to an inquest and a brief review of state/federal abortion laws) of a 25 week old fetus that was aborted and proceeded to live (even after the severing of the umbilical cord) for about 90 minutes, and yet was left to die slowly in a steel bed-pan. Now for me, even though it would not normally be expected that a fetus so young would be able survive outside of the womb, the fetus had demonstrated biological independance by surviving for so long, and should - as such - have been granted the full rights of personhood (i.e. we should have either done all that we could to ensure its survivial or terminated it quickly and humanely). It's cases like this that present some moral queasiness for me with regards late term abortions, and I'm yet to form an opinion on how their ideal legality. |
The age at which an unborn/born child can be independent of its mother is directly dependant upon technology. In not so distant past, children were dependant upon their mother's milk even after they were born. Nowadays, weeks old fetuses can be separated from the mother and kept alive in incubators. In not so distant future, it won't be a problem to keep the baby alive outside of the womb since the day of the fertilization.
Also, physical dependance here raises another question. Consider siamese twins. If one of them is dependant upon the other one, do you think the other one has the right to get him removed? Sure, if their life is in danger, the weaker one should be removed, but if that's not the case, you can't kill the weaker one unless he/she agrees.
Imo, the only clear point in the whole development process is the creation of the zygote. After that, it's all fuzzy and it's hard to pinpoint a specific point in development when the child becomes a person. Sure, the later the abortion done, the worse, but if the process already started, it shouldn't be violently interrupted. As I said earlier, adoption is always an option.
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