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idoru
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Registered: May 2004
Location: Cascadia

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
That's actually not true. People who really want to end it just do it. They generally don't offer much explanation or give any hints about it. That doesn't mean that all suicide threats shouldn't be taken seriously...but there IS a difference between one who really needs to end it, and one who just needs attention.


In Jay's case I can agree, but Mel's post just reads as though she's making a very broad statement about all attempted suicide.

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MeLLyMeL
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quote:
Originally posted by idoru
It was out of context with Jay, which is why many of us decided to take it seriously.

Also, how is attempting suicide not "on the same playing field"? In both scenarios, the individual goes in with the intent of ending their life. The only difference is the outcome; one person succeeds by making the trigger go click (and really, they're only attempting to kill themselves until the bullet hits the right part of the body), the other person fails by taking the wrong dose or not tying the noose tight enough. At the end of the day, each individual chose to end their life and acted accordingly.
I don't see it as "ending" their life if they took the wrong dose.

It's a cry for help. Even when I was receiving texts messages in Miami about this - during WMC.. and I did truly believe it because of what I am STILL going through....... when I found out it was through pills I had a feeling it was more of a cry for help then an actual suicide.

I guess that's where we differ. I won't get into it anymore.


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idoru
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Registered: May 2004
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quote:
Originally posted by MeLLyMeL
I don't see it as "ending" their life if they took the wrong dose. If you really, truly wanted to end your life.. there would not be a wrong dose... only over dose.

It's a cry for help. Even when I was receiving texts messages in Miami about this - during WMC.. and I did truly believe it because of what I am STILL going through....... when I found out it was through pills I had a feeling it was more of a cry for help then an actual suicide.

I guess that's where we differ. I won't get into it anymore.


I guess, like I said shortly before you posted that, it all depends on the situation.

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MeLLyMeL
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or you just really want to nit pick with what I say because maybe I didn't say it the same way Jenny did - but I agree with what Jenny said.


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Oh well, who cares. Let's all get back to making fun of the OP. We were doing that, right?

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idoru
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quote:
Originally posted by MeLLyMeL
or you just really want to nit pick with what I say because maybe I didn't say it the same way Jenny did - but I agree with what Jenny said.


I was just agreeing with you guys. What's your problem?

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I am prob not even one of the ppl Omega is talking about but I just get irked that he needs to even be brought up or compared with Jay because now that we do know the outcomes.. they are not the same.


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MeLLyMeL
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quote:
Originally posted by idoru
I was just agreeing with you guys. What's your problem?
i posted before i saw ur reply.. what's your problem?

I just probably had the worst weekend with Raul being reminded of almost every single day this weekend. Then I saw his post so sorry because I even PM'd Jay myself to tell him that it is still the hardest thing I am going through.

I tried to see raul's fav dj' this weekend and couldn't last 30 seconds without breaking down.


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until any of you are in that state of mind, you really don't know shit tbh.


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quote:
Originally posted by epicaricacy
until any of you are in that state of mind, you really don't know shit tbh.
and you need to realize the state of mind you will put your loved ones through.


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Lol.

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