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Originally posted by starsearcher I just find that if i REALLY like a girl I don't want to jump into bed with her right away...it's weird...

hm.. I guess if I truly fell in love with a girl after first date, I probably wouldn't want to jump into bed with her right away..

Why?? Because if I did, I would probably think that she is somewhat slutty cause she slept with me right after first date.

In other words if I fell in love with a girl after first date, I would think better about her if she didn't want to sleep with me right away.

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Originally posted by starsearcher I just find that if i REALLY like a girl I don't want to jump into bed with her right away...it's weird...

or really WANT to like a girl. I've been through way too many relationships to know that I can't get TOO excited until after a few dates.

Well I just find that when I REALLY like a girl, as in have serious feelings for her, and I find her really beautiful per-se I can't think sexually of her...It's like 2 completely different things After some time yes but otherwise no...But if it's just a hottie that I don't really have serious feelings for then sure I'll jump into bed with her...

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Originally posted by starsearcher I just find that if i REALLY like a girl I don't want to jump into bed with her right away...it's weird...

i feel the same.. i dont think its weird tho.. when u like someone a lot, you dont want to pressure them, or risk messing it up i suppose.

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Originally posted by starsearcher Well I just find that when I REALLY like a girl, as in have serious feelings for her, and I find her really beautiful per-se I can't think sexually of her...

i can... but i choose not to act on it so quickly.

so if your with your booty call and you decide to get some pre/post sex food, who pays???

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Originally posted by tha_broad so if your with your booty call and you decide to get some pre/post sex food, who pays???

Hmmmm good question...I never think about it...I personally rarely pay everything I usually split the bill regardless if it's a bootycall or not. The last time that happened we each payed for ourselves...

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Originally posted by starsearcher Well I just find that when I REALLY like a girl, as in have serious feelings for her, and I find her really beautiful per-se I can't think sexually of her...It's like 2 completely different things After some time yes but otherwise no...But if it's just a hottie that I don't really have serious feelings for then sure I'll jump into bed with her...

you have serious feelings after one or two dates?

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Originally posted by tha_broad so if your with your booty call and you decide to get some pre/post sex food, who pays???

it depends who came first, and how many times.

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Originally posted by DigitalMP you have serious feelings after one or two dates?

I guess the way I pictured it was like this (actually happened): I knew this girl for a long time but we were just friends but I had serious feelings for her...and then when the date happened I already had feelings for her...

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Originally posted by starsearcher I guess the way I pictured it was like this (actually happened): I knew this girl for a long time but we were just friends but I had serious feelings for her...and then when the date happened I already had feelings for her...

How'd that work out?