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Originally posted by speedracer_mec Yea Im sure you know how all people think and have lived a flawless life.

whoa whoa...you know we're cool man...i'm just saying that i'm sure it was something that was to be considered on her part. maybe she felt like it didn't bother her, but had a change of heart...maybe she didn't want to tell you that was the reason because it would hurt your feelings or something...i dunno. i'm just saying that in a situation where you guys aren't sleeping together and are at some point in the future planning on it...she may have realised that she didn't want to take that risk. i'm not saying that it isn't a possibility that what you are saying is right, i'm just saying that you are defending her because you care about her and seem to immediately dismiss the possibility of what i said being true.

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Originally posted by Floorfiller whoa whoa...you know we're cool man...i'm just saying that i'm sure it was something that was to be considered on her part. maybe she felt like it didn't bother her, but had a change of heart...maybe she didn't want to tell you that was the reason because it would hurt your feelings or something...i dunno. i'm just saying that in a situation where you guys aren't sleeping together and are at some point in the future planning on it...she may have realised that she didn't want to take that risk. i'm not saying that it isn't a possibility that what you are saying is right, i'm just saying that you are defending her because you care about her and seem to immediately dismiss the possibility of what i said being true.

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Originally posted by speedracer_mec I agree with the latter, Ummm Sometimes I would be in my dorm and she would suddenly show up and caught me off gaurd...it was shit like this that gave me a mixed signal as well.

Yeah man getting busted beating it by your GF is the worst!!!1one

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Originally posted by speedracer_mec She said I was flawless up until I made that retarded mistake of catching her msging with her ex. She was wrapped up in her past relationships because she generalized me as the same as them. One of her bf's paid people to watch over her. Its sad because I was drunk and never have done anything along those lines. I'd even go as far as saying I was whooped on her and ultimately Neglected.

but listen to what you just said...it doesn't really make sense. she says you were perfect until you discovered a message on her phone questioning whether or not she wanted to be with you. If you were perfect up until that moment she wouldn't have such conversations or such messages on her phone. if anything, SHE was perfect until you looked at that message and that's why its hard for you to handle. i mean, how could you finding a message on her phone in which questions her feelings for you in anyway make you the bad guy? she is just trying to cast blame onto you so she doesn't have to feel so guilty about treating you this way.

Im feeling good today...a bit still in denial but I have several things on my side.

1) Honesty
2) Im almost perfect'''according to her
3) loyalty
4) trustworthiness.
5) She knows she will not find another college dude whose only slept with one girl and will openly admit to it as I DID.
6) Im pretty damn cute...
7) I have a future and a slew of people around me here at school who agree it was her lost for not accepting someone as being imperfect.
If she wasnt willing to accept one mistake....why even engage in a serious relationship where forgiveness will ultimately play a factor at some point.

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Originally posted by speedracer_mec 5) She knows she will not find another college dude whose only slept with one guy and will openly admit to it as I DID.

I certainly hope that she isn't looking for guys who sleep with guys. She isn't going to get very far.

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Originally posted by Floorfiller but listen to what you just said...it doesn't really make sense. she says you were perfect until you discovered a message on her phone questioning whether or not she wanted to be with you. If you were perfect up until that moment she wouldn't have such conversations or such messages on her phone. if anything, SHE was perfect until you looked at that message and that's why its hard for you to handle. i mean, how could you finding a message on her phone in which questions her feelings for you in anyway make you the bad guy? she is just trying to cast blame onto you so she doesn't have to feel so guilty about treating you this way.

WERD...we talked on aim last night. She had the audocity to tell me my letter was amazing and she was going to grab some food and read the poetry. She was definitely in a world of guilt last night...she said she was isolating herself from the world blah blah blah blah

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Originally posted by speedracer_mec Im feeling good today...a bit still in denial but I have several things on my side. 1) Honesty 2) Im almost perfect'''according to her 3) loyalty 4) trustworthiness. 5) She knows she will not find another college dude whose only slept with one guy and will openly admit to it as I DID. 6) Im pretty damn cute... 7) I have a future and a slew of people around me here at school who agree it was her lost for not accepting someone as being imperfect. If she wasnt willing to accept one mistake....why even engage in a serious relationship where forgiveness will ultimately play a factor at some point.

ok i know that was a typo but i had to laugh at it hahhaha

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Originally posted by UWM I certainly hope that she isn't looking for guys who sleep with guys. She isn't going to get very far.

damn you...you beat me hehehehe

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Originally posted by speedracer_mec 5) She knows she will not find another college dude whose only slept with one guy and will openly admit to it as I DID.

Maybe it was the fact that you got your herpes from a GUY that weirded her out so much. I mean, if I met a guy that had been gay before I was with him, or was experimental with that, I would be a little unsure of how to handle him...

lOL typo!!!

A GIRL ...a bitchy girl as most TA's know already. I shared my drama with evyone about this insane girl last year. STD, False Pregnancy, etc etc