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Originally posted by yankeeBaby ... I truly love my man...

so u love him and you are ok if he makes out with some other woman, gets naked with her?

there is no fear that say may be he likes her a lot... may be the sex is better then with you.. ? may be hes gone develop feelings for her after the shag session..?


and nobody is calling u a slut lol

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Originally posted by kaniz At the end of the day, I know who I want to be coming home to - and that's more important than who I may be going to bed with.

to a loving wife who just blowed your neighbour jimmy??

sorry, i just dont get it.

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Kel - no-one (that I can see) is calling you a slut or a swinger - I was throwing my personal example as to why I may not comprehend this as I have slept with my quota of men during my single life and if you and your fella have been together 5.5 years AND you weren't promiscuous before you met, you probably haven't had the 'encounters' I have and so that does make it a little more understandable - I never want to see another cock in my life lol!
And the 'swinger' comment was about 2 MARRIED couples I know that swing - again your case is different sorry if it came across as a comparison to you - it wasn't meant that way xx

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Miki, just because you don't get it, doesn't mean it doesn't work for people.

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Originally posted by Engine9 and nobody is calling u a slut lol

haha I know that I am just clarifying that while some couple enjoy a promiscious lifestyle, I do not Often there are discrepancies in how people view and open relationship and I just wanted to point out that people conduct their own "openess" in a variety of ways. Some are wayy out there, and others simply want the option.
I actually *prefer* sleeping with my man, who knows me and my body.....and whom I feel more comfortable exploring .....err.....more explicit fantasties And the love that we share during sex can never be replaced.

Its just nice to know that if I get the urge, I can go forth with it with out any feelings of regret or guilt. Again, we all have urges, and I'm secure enough... and have enough restraint..... to not give in to all of my urges (by any means....see where I wrote 'its been a few years...')



xavier: I know darling, you are just trying to understand. as is rachel. When I was in with my ex, in a "closed" relationship, I didnt get it either. lol I dont suppose that most people would understand unless they where actually IN an open relationship..... because one must understand and FEEL the emotions and ideas behind it to truly get it. It takes a great deal of trust, maturity and confidence in your partner to be ok with something like this and still feel a sense of true love and committment to him at home.

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Originally posted by jennypie Miki, just because you don't get it, doesn't mean it doesn't work for people.

i completely agree slutpie and thats why im asking all these questions. i wanna try and understand.

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Originally posted by English Rachel Kel - no-one (that I can see) is calling you a slut or a swinger - I was throwing my personal example as to why I may not comprehend this as I have slept with my quota of men during my single life and if you and your fella have been together 5.5 years AND you weren't promiscuous before you met, you probably haven't had the 'encounters' I have and so that does make it a little more understandable - I never want to see another cock in my life lol! And the 'swinger' comment was about 2 MARRIED couples I know that swing - again your case is different sorry if it came across as a comparison to you - it wasn't meant that way xx

lol no worries love, I wasnt making the comment towards anyone in particular. I was just mkaing the reference to the different TYPES of "open" relationships....... and the fact that most people who are engaged in "closed" relationships often see "us" as people who merely want to be promiscious, which is, in fact, certainly not the case with us

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Originally posted by yankeeBaby lol no worries love, I wasnt making the comment towards anyone in particular. I was just mkaing the reference to the different TYPES of "open" relationships....... and the fact that most people who are engaged in "closed" relationships often see "us" as people who merely want to be promiscious, which is, in fact, certainly not the case with us

ok phew

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Originally posted by Xavier Moriarty i completely agree slutpie and thats why im asking all these questions. i wanna try and understand.

Well, it certainly is an interesting and enlightening discussion

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Originally posted by chinamon not true. i say "ugh" but i am a tranny.

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Originally posted by Xavier Moriarty to a loving wife who just blowed your neighbour jimmy?? sorry, i just dont get it.

While this situation hasn't happened very often for me, when it has - and was told about it, the proceeding sex that happened immediately after was /damn/ good.

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Originally posted by kaniz While this situation hasn't happened very often for me, when it has - and was told about it, the proceeding sex that happened immediately after was /damn/ good.

Did you LOVE that person though?

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