From the ever wise urban dictionary:

1. fling

deliberately short-term sexual relationship between two people. Longer than a one-night stand, not as serious-sounding as "affair", more frankly physical than the discreet or twee "dalliance", the word has the associations of a much-needed sexual relief from stress, worry or hangups. No deep personal involvement required, just the sex and a bit of attention.

That's it.

So I would like to formally take back the statement that I had a "one-night stand", because I indeed had a fling.

It sounds better anyway

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Originally posted by Floorfiller boy this thread is getting juicy hahaha... anyway, as much as i hate to say it...theresa i think a lot of the things you do give guys the wrong idea. even if you don't intend to give them those ideas because you're just a nice person...sending someone like that an email would probably first trigger in my mind that you wanted to hook it up again. and then like the thing with your ex when you casually asked him what he would do if you said you wanted to have sex...you didn't really mean anything by it, but look how he took it...he was about to jump your bones hahaha... ok my two cents...gotta go to class

I don't do it purposely

EDIT: That really bothers me. I honestly don't have the intentions to give guys the wrong impression. Writing him an e-mail was to be nice, to kind of take the guilt off my back. (Because to be quite honest, the whole thing makes me feel guilty, like I am a bad person.)

Asking my ex that was asking him in a skewed way if he still really cared about me. I needed to be reassured because once we broke up, I really began to question if he had truly loved me. And that hurts.

Guys just take it the wrong way.

K...


You people know far too much about me now.


*Embarassed*

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Originally posted by Theresa Guys just take it the wrong way.

Boys think with their penises, girls think with their emotions.




lol that reminded me of kindergarten cop.

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Originally posted by Theresa I don't do it purposely EDIT: That really bothers me. I honestly don't have the intentions to give guys the wrong impression. Writing him an e-mail was to be nice, to kind of take the guilt off my back. (Because to be quite honest, the whole thing makes me feel guilty, like I am a bad person.) Asking my ex that was asking him in a skewed way if he still really cared about me. I needed to be reassured because once we broke up, I really began to question if he had truly loved me. And that hurts. Guys just take it the wrong way.

i know...but look how things turned out.

you asked your ex that hoping to get "i still care about you" and what really happened? he says yeah we could fuck...i don't wanna start things up again, but i'll fuck you.

and whether you like it or not...i can bet you'll get an email back from that guy you just sent an email to inviting you to come hang out with him again because he's hoping for some more ass...

it sucks...but that's reality. i know you don't mean any harm by it...i'm just saying that is what you can expect unfortunately...

ok now i'm late for class...really going this time

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Originally posted by Floorfiller i know...but look how things turned out. you asked your ex that hoping to get "i still care about you" and what really happened? he says yeah we could fuck...i don't wanna start things up again, but i'll fuck you. and whether you like it or not...i can bet you'll get an email back from that guy you just sent an email to inviting you to come hang out with him again because he's hoping for some more ass... it sucks...but that's reality. i know you don't mean any harm by it...i'm just saying that is what you can expect unfortunately... ok now i'm late for class...really going this time

Guys are stupid!!!

I am going to bed, screw this!

EDIT: JEEEZ!! SO much editing today.

I am not mad at you Jason, I am just frusterated because men think with their dicks half the time, and it pisses me off!

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Originally posted by Floorfiller you asked your ex that hoping to get "i still care about you" and what really happened? he says yeah we could fuck...i don't wanna start things up again, but i'll fuck you. and whether you like it or not...i can bet you'll get an email back from that guy you just sent an email to inviting you to come hang out with him again because he's hoping for some more ass...

Unfortunately, this is how alot of guys think. Its really sad, but its true. Sorry to hear that people are trying to take advantage of you.

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Originally posted by Coup Vlad wins. Flawless victory.

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Originally posted by Theresa I am not mad at you Jason, I am just frusterated because men think with their dicks half the time, and it pisses me off!

Replace half with ... alot more than half.

P.S.

I am really beginning to understand why women turn LEZ.

I am considering it

Goodnight all (it is night time for me *night shift*).

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Originally posted by Theresa I am not mad at you Jason, I am just frusterated because men think with their dicks half the time, and it pisses me off!

Not true, I can safely say that Im an exception to the rule.

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Originally posted by Coup Vlad wins. Flawless victory.

shouldn't this thread be moved to the classics section ..

wow.. i never knew this thread would turn out this popular.