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| quote: | Originally posted by Jem_hadar
The primary reason I think ppl complain and get rilled up is because they look at dancing as a pastime, like chilling with your buddies.
You want to be comfortable, this isn't your job, this is your everyday personal life. They dont wanna be "forced" to dress in a manner such as they may have to conform to in order to make a living.
And most ppl dont expect to necessarily be happy while working (sad, yes, but most/many see working as a necessary evil to get money to support themselves and live life the way they want to), but many if doing a fun activity in their pastime, want to be as content as possible.
Im just trying to break down the likely logic as felt by those who dont enjoy conforming to 'style codes'.
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I can understand the viewpoint, but at the same time I think the bigger picture isn't being seen. For example, I may want to play softball with some buddies, and we're not necessarily gonna care what we wear. But now say we want to join an organized league, we have to adhere to what rules they have for home and away team colors, on top of the rules of conduct. Small example.
Putting it another way, yes the act of listening to the music by a dj and dancing is a pastime or even a hobby if you will, but once you take it outside of something you have complete control over, ie house party at your own place vs club, you lose a certain amount of control over the circumstances in which you can participate.
That's basically my point, that this isn't their house, their party, or their event. You don't ever really have full control of your surroundings, so in most cases you adapt without even thinking about it. If they want to participate, so be it, but then don't bitch about the fact. If they don't, and the nights flop, then the public has spoken. A dress code in and of itself really isn't a big deal, but I'm just tired of seeing the same posts about how people think it's such an huge infringement on their ability to have a good time.
Not picking a fight, just tossing out my 2 cents.
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