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Originally posted by Vivid Boy but if guys thought abt consequences we'd be girls

out of all possible people in this thread, vd boy has to be the most right.

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Originally posted by LucasMead Just bc you lose interest is NOT a reason or justification for cheating! If you lose interest in her, man, just be fair to the person and break it off first, then go have your fun!

this may work in these little relationships that last 3 months and then you move on, this does NOT work in relationships where you have been together for a long time, even married and have kids. you can't just move on because there are resposibilities and other things that are keeping people together.

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy fine ur my last option too!

don't worry eric, if she actually saw you in real life and hung out with you, you would be option number 1. damn hot.

^^ Pics are needed in this time of decision makings LOL

btw: your response about long-term relationships is dead-on, especially if one has kids....it can cause great stress on the fam to pack up and leave for a one-nighter....

Vivid makes serious sense in a lot of his comments, he just has his own unique way of presenting them to the viewing public LOL Ah whatev, the dood cracks me up on a daily basis.....

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Originally posted by StereoPrincess this may work in these little relationships that last 3 months and then you move on, this does NOT work in relationships where you have been together for a long time, even married and have kids. you can't just move on because there are resposibilities and other things that are keeping people together.

Oh very true... time adds additional factors and complications to the situation.

Once ppl are very intimately involved (in a non physical way I mean), its never an easy black and white choice... there is a plethora of other things you need to seriously consider... and weight them in to see how they all matter to you in the over picture...

Jem