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elFreak
Blood Diamonds and Salsa

Registered: Feb 2008
Location: With Juan Pachanga Eating Tacos. Ah Ha Si Mi Gusta.
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Nov-18-2008 20:25
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Echo of Silence
Supreme tranceaddict

Registered: Sep 2003
Location: corner of the garden
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| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
you know i was thinking the other night about cheating...i was having a random psychotic moment in my mind asking myself if i would ever cheat on my bf...like trying to picture me doing the actual act, and the thought of it made me sick. i was like, "oh HELL no i couldn't cheat on him".
but i've cheated before.
i mean a lot of people are convinced that once u cheat, u just always cheat, but i'm living proof that it's not true. cheating comes along with insecurity and selfishness. and if you are 110% confident in yourself and your relationship and you are 110% in love, then you are selfless & confident, thus, making you not a candidate to cheat. i've grown up a lot mentally and emotionally too over the past few years and i think the more you mature, the less you are likely to cheat too.
i admire people who have never cheated in their life and are very true to their word when they say they never would. however, i'm the type who has has gotten caught up in a moment (usually drugs and/or alcohol were involved) and cheated...but only in the relationships i was miserable in. i have cheated 3 times. once in a long distance relationship. once out of spite because he treated me like shit and i was miserable and i justified it. and then another time i just wasn't happy and was probably trying to sabotage the whole relationship. i've been faithful too though and i like being faithful. i'm not a piece of shit. i am a great girlfriend when i'm in love and happy, but i've also been a shitty girlfriend too. just depends on the relationship i guess and where i was at in my life at the time.
basically what i'm saying is that i think cheating is totally circumstantial. agree or disagree? |
Back on topic, here.
I think people who have cheated can decide that they don't want to cheat again and they won't cheat again.
I don't think all people who have cheated are shit.
People, good people, make mistakes.
If someone asked me could I cheat on my bf, I would say no, I couldn't but sometimes, I need so much attention, what happens when I'm in one of those moments and he's not around...? I could see myself cheating. I mean I probably wouldn't...
In my opinion, we can become what we want to be.
| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Almost every thread Slylee makes turns into this. Is it her fault? I'm hesitant to blame her - it's more like people just loooooove this drama and keep perpetuating it for entertainment. It's why they love her being around. |
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Nov-18-2008 20:26
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elFreak
Blood Diamonds and Salsa

Registered: Feb 2008
Location: With Juan Pachanga Eating Tacos. Ah Ha Si Mi Gusta.
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Nov-18-2008 20:52
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