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| quote: | Originally posted by elena
ahh true true, strange though cause id think that if you were already in a relationship there wouldnt be a need to impress, know what i mean cause you're already taken.
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Sorry...just reading through this thread.
I disagree although I understand what you mean. I stay in shape whether I'm single or spoken for. Too many people let themselves go after they are in a relationship. Sure part of the relationship is based on the bond that you have created, but a guy would have to be crazy to think that I would still be as attracted to him if he gained 50lbs of fat. Truth hurts, but I am a very visual person and I make no apologies for it. Romance is great, but I don't stay in shape for my mate not to. You should always want to impress your mate.
The same thing holds true for people that let themselves go in their 30's and 40's. Sure your body changes as you grow older...that's all the more reason to change your habits along with it. I say this all the time and I get flamed left and right...I hate fast food. Worthless shit. I don't eat it. I also hate getting flamed for saying that I like a man with (muscle) definition. I love looking at a man that is ripped. Proportioned of course. If I ever post that I get bashed for being shallow. Blah. It's not shallow or there wouldn't be threads like this. It's my own personal preference. Guys like looking at women with nice bodies. Nobody ever says shit about all of those threads or their comments. I happen to like men with nice bodies. Yes, well defined abs turn me on. Sue me. Oh...and that nice little 'V' (David has it going on) is damn sexy.
You guys are all trying to improve your bodies. As long as you are doing it for the right reasons and have reasonable expectations then I wish you the best with it. Do try to remember this...there is such thing as being too big. Doesn't sound like any of you would ever get that crazy, but you never know who is reading these boards. 
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