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| quote: | Originally posted by Lilith
That bit is a worry.
In which case you take a bit of a circular route around the problem rather than facing her directly for now. So, start looking for people who've experienced this problem before, talk to them about their experiences and drag as much out of the lovely girlfriend about how it's been done to others.
Not very professional I know and she could get into trouble, if that's the case it might be best to leave her out of it, but if the crap really hits the fan she'll be guilty by association anyway.
It does worry me that she's out to wreck you, rather than force you to perform your best under pressure, which sometimes is the best way for people to learn, by playing it like you mean it.
Ah, you'll be alright it's just a case of picking through the clues as best you can, patiently, quietly and objectively weighing them for what they're worth, then yes, it is best to talk about it. There's nothing going to be resolved by just grinding each others gears without any kind of opportunity to actually stop annoying one another, it'll just explode and you will lose.
(If it matters any, the chance I thought that you where the source of irritation was a really minor one, you're fairly amicable and reasonable.  ) |
Yeah, I had a word with my girlfriend and all she tells me is that I should avoid sort of confrontation as much as possible, because, like I said, she could shut way too many doors. Say nothing but "yes, ma'am", "no, ma'am" because 4 years of hard work can be destroyed by her bad mood in just one cranky morning 
| quote: | Originally posted by Ian
I'd agree with this, however she's surely got people above her in places, and if she tries anything funny, I'd goto those people and remind her who pays her wages. I don't see the point in her making life hell but I know many tutors who have done in the past, both for me, friends & contacts |
I can only complain if I fail the subject she's lecturing, which is nearly impossible because I am a good student after all... but I'm quitting the subject I was attending with her because she clearly stated that I had no chances of getting an A with her (and that's what I've strived to achieve in all core subjects ever since I entered university).
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