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oh puh-lease. I study sexuality and can tell you both from my studies AND from experience from friends and such that it is NOT a choice.
Do you REALLY think that a man is going to CHOOSE to live a lifestyle that proves to be ten times more difficult for him? Remember that not all gays live in an open-minded, liberal environment, and even when they DO (ie: nyc, san fran, etc...)it still proves a very difficult lifestyle. Even in these places, there is discrimination.
My friend once said that if he had a choice, he would DEFINITELY choose to be attracted to women because he would not have to go through the trauma of: dissapointing and alienating certain people in his life, losing the "respect" of his church and fellow church-go-ers, the dissappointment of not having a biological child with a woman, the teasing, the threats, the general way in which society treats gays, etc.....
seriously, think about this. 
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