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Originally posted by Sugarbean some people dont have it in them to go to people in person. what problem is it if they want to post it.

ya seriously

i think you need to take it slow as far as fixing your weight. Its tremendously hard to go from not working out ever, to going to the gym regularly. I think you should start by doing small repetitions of situps/pushups, no matter how wimpy you think it is. Sooner or later, youll see results and thatll be enough to motivate you to do more.
I think you need to either get some professional help, or try to be patient and tell yourself that it takes time to get where you want to be.

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