Originally posted by trancEyes22
stop starting drama...its not a racist comment, its a fact. middle eastern men do not let their wife do anything without their consent. i dont think what i said is racist at all, plus my age has nothing to do with this. its like saying some natives worship the cow and eat dogs..but there wasnt anything racist about that
id seriously watch what you say before throwing the term "racist" around
don't be switching this around erin
ok MAYBE there's a bigger tendency to this kind of issue with middle eastern men, never the less; source of such behavior ( not letting wife/gf go out ) is jealous and fear, possibly even some historical beliefs that womens should not be trusted. And that, HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH COLOUR OR RACE.
Oh and can I also bring to your attention the fact you say " middle eastern men do not let their wife do anything without their consent." ...... how's that not racist or prejudiced or a global generalization of a group of population ?
pfff
ridiculous.
ps : who knows maybe the guy who started this thread is middle eastern, or almost, and considers also locking up his gf/future wife.....
Oct-02-2003 04:55
occrider
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Registered: Oct 2000
Location: New York
quote:
Originally posted by trancEyes22
stop starting drama...its not a racist comment, its a fact. middle eastern men do not let their wife do anything without their consent. i dont think what i said is racist at all, plus my age has nothing to do with this. its like saying some natives worship the cow and eat dogs..but there wasnt anything racist about that
id seriously watch what you say before throwing the term "racist" around
Sorry but it is racist in the sense that middle eastern does NOT equate with muslim extremism. Perhaps you should understand that the region is a hodge podge of cultural and religious diversity ranging from middle eastern christianity to judaism. Implying that middle eastern husbands subvert their wifes to their dominion is the equivalent to saying that white southerners are all members of the kkk who desire a return to slavery.
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Oct-02-2003 05:00
trancEyes22
but then there's you..
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quote:
Originally posted by jdat
don't be switching this around erin
ok maybe there's a bigger tendency to this kind of issue with middle eastern men, never the less; source of such behavior ( not letting wife/gf go out ) is jealous and fear, possibly even some historical beliefs that womens should not be trusted. And that, HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH COLOUR OR RACE.
Oh and can I also bring to your attention the fact you say " middle eastern men do not let their wife do anything without their consent." ...... how's that not racist or prejudiced or a global generalization of a group of population ?
pfff
ridiculous.
how is it a generalization? how bout its a fact? i watch my 20/20 and witness middle eastern men and women admitting to either controlling their wives or admitting to being controlled by their husbands. sure, its a part of their culture, but i dont agree with it. just as much as i dont agree with white, black, asian...whoever husbands controlling their wives actions and decisions.
but its a little dramatic to call me a racist when i was just making a point about his intentions. not like TA doesnt have enough drama of its own...
so lets put this to rest, or you can pm me for any further questions
erin
Oct-02-2003 05:01
occrider
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Location: New York
quote:
Originally posted by trancEyes22
how is it a generalization? how bout its a fact? i watch my 20/20 and witness middle eastern men and women admitting to either controlling their wives or admitting to being controlled by their husbands. sure, its a part of their culture, but i dont agree with it. just as much as i dont agree with white, black, asian...whoever husbands controlling their wives actions and decisions.
but its a little dramatic to call me a racist when i was just making a point about his intentions. not like TA doesnt have enough drama of its own...
so lets put this to rest, or you can pm me for any further questions
erin
Please tell me how "middle eastern men do not let their wife do anything without their consent." is NOT a generalization??? And all blondes are fucking ditzes ... generalization????
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Oct-02-2003 05:03
jdat
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Registered: Oct 2001
Location: I dont even know
quote:
Originally posted by trancEyes22
how is it a generalization? how bout its a fact? i watch my 20/20 and witness middle eastern men and women admitting to either controlling their wives or admitting to being controlled by their husbands. sure, its a part of their culture, but i dont agree with it. just as much as i dont agree with white, black, asian...whoever husbands controlling their wives actions and decisions.
but its a little dramatic to call me a racist when i was just making a point about his intentions. not like TA doesnt have enough drama of its own...
so lets put this to rest, or you can pm me for any further questions
erin
even if there might be an outstanding issue of this being done in that general area, I do not think it is good to go as far as saying it's common knowledge that everyone does it. That's like saying 100% of americans eat fastfood ( not the same type of thing, but just another form of stereotype ).
ok whatever
you get my point I hope or I dunno I'll pinch your bumm next week when I'm in DC
john =P
Oct-02-2003 05:04
trancEyes22
but then there's you..
Registered: Feb 2003
Location: district of corruption
mmmm fast food
Oct-02-2003 05:04
Scarface
Junior tranceaddict
Registered: Nov 2002
Location: Vancouver
quote:
Originally posted by trancEyes22
how is it a generalization? how bout its a fact? i watch my 20/20 and witness middle eastern men and women admitting to either controlling their wives or admitting to being controlled by their husbands.
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Oct-02-2003 05:29
speedracer_mec
DeepHouse & Progressive
Registered: Oct 2001
Location: Greece, where the good progressive comes from.
im asking this for a friend of mine
im not middle eastern
and very happy at that
Oct-02-2003 05:35
occrider
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Location: New York
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Originally posted by Scarface
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What are you doing on tranceaddict? Why aren't you busy controlling your wife
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Oct-02-2003 05:36
Scarface
Junior tranceaddict
Registered: Nov 2002
Location: Vancouver
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Originally posted by occrider
What are you doing on tranceaddict? Why aren't you busy controlling your wife
im busy watching 20/20
Oct-02-2003 05:37
occrider
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Originally posted by Scarface
im busy watching 20/20
Hey guess what ... 20/20 said that most kids who go to raves and dance clubs take ecstasy. So if your kid listens to trance, I would bet on the fact that he does drugs.
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Oct-02-2003 05:40
Scarface
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Location: Vancouver
i have locked up my kids along with my four wives, so im not worrying about them taking any drugs or god forbid going to a night club