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| quote: | Originally posted by DrUg_Tit0
Ever since the possibility of divorce has been introduced, marriage has been reduced to a formality. Therefore waiting untill married really doesn't make any sense. It is devoid of it's original purpose and idea, and that is to be faithful to a single person for your entire life. With that situation at hands, the only logical continuation of the idea would be to constrain oneself from sex with people you don't expect to have a long possibly lifetime relationship with. I mean, people get drunk and married, and then divorce a week later. It's worse to have sex with that kind of partner than with one you've been with for say, 5 years, but still haven't got around to get married.
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i think that alot of people have made marriage a joke, which is unfortunate. However, just because some people make poor judgement doesn't mean i am going to give up on marrige. My parents have been happily married for 27 years now. Not everyone ends up in divorce. Besides, what if i was a married woman but my husband brutally beat me everyday, what am i supposed to do? Or what if i was married and my husband went around raping children all day? I think there are exeptions. When i go into my marrige i will do so with the full intention of spending the rest of my life with this person and remain faithful to them. I don't think there is anything illogical about that.
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