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Originally posted by oniaku69 Really, what is it with people being so shy about just talking to each other??

well, i'm fine about talking to her..

her's fine, but like, if i were out in a club, and i saw really hot birdie who i thought was absolutly gorgeous, i wouldn't go up and talk as i'd have nothing to say, but at least with this birdie, i'll have reason to say "hi!"

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Originally posted by DigiNut Wait too long and you'll get on her just friends list.

i'd love to burn all those just friends lists!!

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Originally posted by UglyDave i'd love to burn all those just friends lists!!

No need to burn 'em if you never get on 'em.

Seriously, you ask her out now, you know instantly whether or not she's interested. You wait 3 months, she's likely to lose any interest she originally had.

I think even the ladies will tell you that there's only so much of your "personality" she can see that's going to make her more attracted to you. The gibberish that comes out of your mouth (no offense, but guys do talk gibberish to girls they're interested in) doesn't have much bearing on it... it's more the way you carry yourself, the way you look at her, the way you smile, etc... and she'll see those things almost instantly, so there's no use in making them stale by waiting it out.

Go ahead and ask a girl (one you're comfortable talking to) what interests her in a guy. I guarantee you you'll get a few that say "the eyes", "the way he dresses", "the way he walks", etc... believe me Dave, she knows you, she's studied you and already made her decision! Time to find out what that decision was!

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Originally posted by UglyDave Mornin Mel! hope you had a good weekend! Her name's also Melissa

my sister's name is Melissa as well

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Originally posted by wienerschnitzel ask her if she wants to practice mouth to mouth recesitation at your house after school.

reminds me of the time i tried that and then dropped the class i was in cos of the concequences

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The politix of ur little problem is easy...

UR NOT PUTTING ANY INPUT!

Lets talk ok... have you got her?

NO

have you got anything to lose?

NO

U catching on...?

LOL just walk up to her and say 'Hi'

If you're shy as fuck then wats the use on living... ?

You need to (goes to anyone else out there) GET UR ASS UP AND SAY THIS IS THE DAY!!!

LOL i dun't mean to preach but things don't get done unless you do sumthing!

my 2c

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i cant beleive this thread went three whole pages with no one saying
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Originally posted by Photo_bot_2k1 i cant beleive this thread went three whole pages with no one saying PICS OR STFU

i thought i read someone post with it thats why i didnt say nothin

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hey dave did you see her again yet?

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Originally posted by bassaholix The politix of ur little problem is easy... UR NOT PUTTING ANY INPUT! Lets talk ok... have you got her? NO have you got anything to lose? NO U catching on...? LOL just walk up to her and say 'Hi' If you're shy as fuck then wats the use on living... ? You need to (goes to anyone else out there) GET UR ASS UP AND SAY THIS IS THE DAY!!! LOL i dun't mean to preach but things don't get done unless you do sumthing! my 2c

chill out dude, i havn't even seen her since this thread started!

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Originally posted by butterfly hey dave did you see her again yet?

not yet mel, but i'm supposed to be in a class later!

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Originally posted by UglyDave not yet mel, but i'm supposed to be in a class later!

good good. i think you should make it a goal to have a conversation with her today and see if she wants to get coffee or something or to study together. something outside of class you know?