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| quote: | Originally posted by anuneventrade
I seriously hope the rest of you guys aren't like this. No way I'd ever go lesbian, but damn...
If any of you really treated someone like crap and disrespect, explain yourself! at once. |
His change in behavior is likely attributed to 1 of 4 possibilities:
1. He has done something behind your back and it has changed his outlook on the relationship he shares with you
- at first I wasn't going to think this was a possibility, and I thought Butterfly was merely projecting her past situation onto yours (I mean no offense Butterfly - I just remember your situation). But she is correct that this can be a cause to a change in behavior.
2. His true colors are coming out.
- Red flag behavior here. Get out while you still have no broken bones in your body.
3. There's more to the story (as there often is), and we're hearing your side only. His version may simply be that things were moving too fast, and he didn't want a relationship.
-People moving in together does one of 2 things to a man: it brings him closer to his girlfriend, or it scares him into being locked down with 1 person for good. To those who are not ready, the ladder usually results.
4. He's turning gay.
-It's been known to happen. Outside shot I guess.
In any case, his behavior has changed for a reason. He has lost interest in you, or at least shown a lack of interest in the relationship you once had. Even if you move away from him and he eventually sees what he has lost and tries to get you back, you should be weary of his actions on this day. The actions one does today has a direct impact on the actions one does in the future. Be weary of these types and move on. Much more stable individuals out there.
Go forth to greener pastures young lady.
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Whence September dusk grows crisper still,
with leaves all crimson conquered,
I yearn to shout,
and dance about,
and stick pickles in my honker...
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we didn't. people joked that we were the perfect couple. in love, but didnt show it off. able to spend time without each other. this really did come all of a sudden. 
