Hell, he is like my father sadly. My father rarely stands up for my mother (so that job kinda falls to me..then again I do a much better job than he does). I would have torn them a new asshole or just walked out. My first response would have been...why do you think that? or so what she is a controling bitch....she is MY CONTROLING BITCH and I like that or the most famous blunt line of them all....MIND YOUR OWN DAMN BUSINESS!!!!!. Nothing like idiots who think they are the be all and end all of life and can say what they want without repercussions. Those people usually end up hated and normally with few friends (the friends they have are the same types of ppl). Take this as a reality call in human nature and tell that jackass b.f of yours to learn to pull his socks up and defend what matters to him. I'd even teach to f00 how to defend you...I know certainly without a doubt if you were dating me...they would have been told off in some form....more likely the mind your own damn business cuz it was a work party but if I had seen the ppl outside of work....totally different story....hahaha...then again the behavior is not surprising cuz that's my dad...the type of person he is. My dad is so lame that he let my uncle tear my mother's self esteem apart and sat right next to her and then smartly my brother saw it and found me..I went and destroyed my uncle then my father went ape at me for it...and i said..you can't defend your own wife...your useless...which is probably a comment he took to heart. My uncle did get punked off badly..hehehehe...then his wife went postal at me...which I pointed out...he dished it out..my lame father let it happen....and I refuted it and if she did not like it, she could tell her worthless husband to stfu. I left and went home...
Dec-23-2003 15:30
Slylee
love lockdown
Registered: May 2001
Location: Hollywood, FL
yea but if you react that way and get really defensive and mad, it just makes you look guilty. then, whether you are a controlling bitch or not (which is none of their business), they’re gonna think you are anyway just because of that reaction. gotta be 2 steps ahead at all times
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man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone
Dec-23-2003 17:22
Miss Julia
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Aug 2003
Location: Los Angeles
Re: give me sympathy plezzz
Wait, why did they make those comments about u being a controlling bitch??? I don't get it? Did u say or do anything in particular? They said that just because you guys left early? lol how fucked up of them. No wonder your man doesn't like them!
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Dec-24-2003 02:17
`pr0digy
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Sep 2003
Location: Philadelphia
If it's a serious relationship, and this was just a onetime fuckup, just let it go. People saying "omg omg dump his azz right now k thnx" really just need to grow up. If he does it all the time, of course that's a differant story.
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Dec-24-2003 02:41
wienerschnitzel
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: May 2003
Location: out west
nah, we are serious and he is a good boyfriend. It was just a stupid sitation and if it was the first time it had happened with his co-workers then maybe i wouldn't have gotten so flustered. I have never said anything to them to give them a reason to say such things to me, they just can't understand that they suck and thats why jeremy doesn't want to hang out with them, so they assume that i am controling him and not 'allowing' him to go out. He isn't a stupid guy and i think if i was treating him like that we wouldn't be together. If anyone else wants to believe that i could in fact be a controlling bitch, then your welcome to it. But im a fairly honest person and i can't see that being the problem. I hope it won't happen again because he is moving to another city in a couple of weeks for school and so he won't be working there anymore. I should be joining him there in march.... so i can be a controlling bitch.
Dec-24-2003 07:06
davinox
diving deep into sound
Registered: Dec 2001
Location: you could say i'm from dallas
next time try sticking up for yourself. its the 21st century, men and women should be equals........
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Dec-24-2003 07:09
wienerschnitzel
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: May 2003
Location: out west
i totally agree- but in this situation, those people had no respect for me, so if i would have defended myself it would have made them laugh or dish out more. So it was best for me to walk away. However, they really think jeremy is a great guy and have alot of respect for him, and i think they would respect what he had to say.
I don't get it? Did u say or do anything in particular? They said that just because you guys left early? lol how fucked up of them. No wonder your man doesn't like them!
