Don't remember where I got this from:


NICE GUYS FINISH LAST
By: Garrett Hols

It’s amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT’S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they’re after. Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about the asshole. But she claims to love the asshole… now this is where the theory begins. She doesn’t want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole. Girls are idiots. They don’t realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don’t see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn’t THAT naïve. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening. Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don’t say, “Oh he’s hot” or “I want to have his children” about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don’t need it from the asshole. The nice guy gets the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action. I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really the route to take to get action… I have been down this path for all of my post-pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE… at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, “Why isn’t he paying attention to me?” so they explore why. They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass”. It is then he puts on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him… even thought all she has won is an asshole. Once you have gone down the path as a nice guy or a “listener” you can’t turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a “listener” you cant do anything about it… just pack up and close shop. There is no way you will get into her pants… ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on. It just doesn’t work like that. The girl wont “come to her senses” and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies… instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. Right. They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys EVERYWHERE!!!! Girls aren’t looking for nice guys… they say they are but they’re not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is NO SUCH THING as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don’t treat you with respect, that don’t listen to you, and that don’t care about you I say this; look next to you. The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what you want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know about yourself… because he has listened to it all.




I'm one of the nice guys...

i like good guys.

i dont know why everyone says girls like the assholes.

i'm a nice guy and i dont have any trouble getting laid.

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Originally posted by Scorpio Rising Don't remember where I got this from: NICE GUYS FINISH LAST By: Garrett Hols It’s amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT’S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they’re after. Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about the asshole. But she claims to love the asshole… now this is where the theory begins. She doesn’t want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole. Girls are idiots. They don’t realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don’t see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn’t THAT naïve. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening. Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don’t say, “Oh he’s hot” or “I want to have his children” about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don’t need it from the asshole. The nice guy gets the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action. I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really the route to take to get action… I have been down this path for all of my post-pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE… at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, “Why isn’t he paying attention to me?” so they explore why. They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass”. It is then he puts on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him… even thought all she has won is an asshole. Once you have gone down the path as a nice guy or a “listener” you can’t turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a “listener” you cant do anything about it… just pack up and close shop. There is no way you will get into her pants… ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on. It just doesn’t work like that. The girl wont “come to her senses” and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies… instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. Right. They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys EVERYWHERE!!!! Girls aren’t looking for nice guys… they say they are but they’re not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is NO SUCH THING as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don’t treat you with respect, that don’t listen to you, and that don’t care about you I say this; look next to you. The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what you want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know about yourself… because he has listened to it all. I'm one of the nice guys...

wurd

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Originally posted by Maaz It's not about being a bad or a nice guy: it's just the difference from having confidence (which some people seem to link with the image of bad guy) and beeing a bloody doormat (the good guy). Keep in mind that you can be a good guy and not be a doormat Girls also like new things: if you're just like the rest, you'll hardly get any attention. That's why "bad guys with attitude" seem to be young girl's choice. They have this "different" image, rebel, which calls their attention. This is the essence, I can't be arsed to tell the whole thing... gotta go to bed

I fully agree with what you say here. You "good guys" can try to put it the other way around. Would you rather be with a fun energetic girl that always thinks of something new and entertaining to do, or with a boring quiet one that just sits at home and keeps having emotional issues? Good!=introvert. Besides, women want men who feel confident and who are able to protect them, not some shy kids who won't know what to do when something bad happens. Another thing that matters here is the approach. If you're "good", it's most likely that you're just shy. So when a girl has to choose between a quiet guy that sits in the corner or a guy that approaches her and starts hitting on her, she's gonna choose the latter. The guy that approached her is a dominant one, while the guy that didn't is not. The former can help her and direct her when she has problems, while the latter can only say "whatever you say darling". Besides, that dominant guy doesn't have to be a bad one, it's more likely that it's your jealousy speaking. Again, here you can try to reverse roles too. Are you more likely to be with a girl that starts talking to you or with a confused one that's shy and doesn't know what to say when you ask her something?

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Bah, you all act like girls and guys are so different. Let's put it this way: You're at your friend's house party, which girl are you more likely to end up in bed with? The one wearing a black miniskirt and tube top that rubs up against you and whispers in your ear how cool it would be to do it on Jimmy's parents' bed, or the quiet one talking to her girlfriend on the couch and avoiding any eye contact with you?

Yeah, that's what I thought. Even if you chatted up the shy one, you probably wouldn't end up parking your meat in her by the end of the night.

Now the one you'd really want a long-term basis (assuming she's decent looking) is of course the shy one, because you know that when she goes out, she's not attracting as much attention as humanly possible and probably having some stranger fuck her brains out. But in order for you to have any inclination to go after her, you need to see a visible sign that she's interested, and you'll probably have to take it slow, there definitely won't be instant gratification (read: instant fuck).

Moral of the story is: guys like bitch sluts as much as girls like assholes. If you want your "nice" personality to be an asset, then don't go after the sluts!

Edit: forgot to add that said guys, after winning said sluts, continue to preach on about how said sluts are really wonderful people and are not actually whores, even though they are. See, we're all guilty of this self-delusion.

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My party schedule:
2009-02-21 - DJ Attention @ I'm So Popular
2009-06-18 - DJ Annoying @ People Need To Know Where I'll Be
2012-11-32 - DJ Insufferable ɸ Or At Least the Stalkers I Complain About
2048-06-66 - Spastic & Whocares ¶ Although I'm Actually Flattered
9999-45-81 - Tweaker Gimp ☼ I Probably Won't Even Go To This But I Have To Make Sure I Fill Up All The Available Space Here

Girls like guys that treat them like the ultimate sh*t, cheat on them, lie to them, and rule them. Yes... and I've seen it hundreds of times, seen it with girl friends that I have, with the girlfriends of friends ( and this particular friend has tretead her like the worst crap ) still she falls for him.. the more a guy dont show respect to them, the more they follow you.. wierd.

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Michael Andrews Feat. Gary Jules - Mad World (Grayed Out Mix)

good guys all the way for me

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

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Originally posted by Verona^My Dick/Jerk is a vague term that lacks explaination. Did they physically abuse you, verbally taunt you, what the hell did they do to earn their dick status?

This is the chillout room remember. :P

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Girls at youth like the bad guys more, and its more about "playing" than being nice...

but as they grow they preper nice guys for wedding

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James Holden is my only GOD!

How to meet nice girls:

volunteer work
library


How to not meet nice girls:

a bar
a kegger
a club

Of course I'm generalizing, but it usually holds true.

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