i don't know what i would do if my girlfriend did that to me...i'd be pretty pissed...i've always said that i wouldn't stand for it, but i guess i wouldn't be able to say one way or the other until it happened and i had to decide.

anyway, i think you should tell her...you fucked up and it is her choice whether or not she wants to still be with you...at least give her that...

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Originally posted by jp One lie always leads to another.. and another... and another...

...and before you know it, there's a wall built between you and her and you get pulled further and further apart from her.

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Originally posted by GelatinPufF You’re in a relationship with the greatest girl in the world *Natalie*. 2 years go by, 5 years go by. You love her to absolute DEATH and she’s the best thing that has ever happened to you. You spend every day and night together thinking about each other, and you vowel to each other that you'll never do anything to hurt one another. One night at party tho, you get trashed and do it with someone who you wouldn’t piss on if they were on fire. However, you love *Natalie* so much that you don't want to hurt her, knowing that it was a one time thing and the biggest mistake you've ever made, especially after voweling to her that you'll never hurt her. You know that if she found out, not only her world, but your world would be completely and utterly fucking shattered. So do you keep it from her, and lie (not that lieing is always a bad thing), or tell her the truth? If someone did this to you, what would you want them to do? Would you forgive them if it was truly the biggest mistake of their life and dearly loved them?

hahahahahahahah you fucking clown

you well under stupid CLOWN

no forgivness no sympathy for what you've done.

Reach for the razors and end it all

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Originally posted by George Kendall hahahahahahahah you fucking clown you well under stupid CLOWN no forgivness no sympathy for what you've done. Reach for the razors and end it all

lmfao.

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Originally posted by GelatinPufF You’re in a relationship with the greatest girl in the world *Natalie*. 2 years go by, 5 years go by. You love her to absolute DEATH and she’s the best thing that has ever happened to you. You spend every day and night together thinking about each other, and you vowel to each other that you'll never do anything to hurt one another. One night at party tho, you get trashed and do it with someone who you wouldn’t piss on if they were on fire. However, you love *Natalie* so much that you don't want to hurt her, knowing that it was a one time thing and the biggest mistake you've ever made, especially after voweling to her that you'll never hurt her. You know that if she found out, not only her world, but your world would be completely and utterly fucking shattered. So do you keep it from her, and lie (not that lieing is always a bad thing), or tell her the truth? If someone did this to you, what would you want them to do? If i would be Natalie, i would go and sleep with someone else as you did, so you would feel the same how she would If you really love her , tell her the truth, and if she break up with you then i would not blame it on her Would you forgive them if it was truly the biggest mistake of their life and dearly loved them?

She'll know. Whether or not you tell her, she'll know. There will be something between you because of how you act, since you know you fucked another girl. Tell her. She probably won't forgive you, and you deserve that.

You can't cheat on someone if you love them that much. No matter how piss ass drunk I got (and believe you me, it's happened) and my boyfriend wasn't there, I never cheated. I usually called him telling him I missed him. In fact, normally, all I did was talk about him.

I don't believe you that you loved her that much or you wouldn't be in that situation.

If you did it once, what's to say you won't do it again.

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Originally posted by GelatinPufF (not that lieing

you could start by spelling lying correctly...... than again just let us laugh at you like george said

Tell the truth. Be a man and accept responsibility for your actions. The only person you are lying to is yourself if you don't.

Alcohol has different effect on people. I see good drunks and stupid drunks who'd do anything after lots of pints.

So IMO it is possible that this dude could have been really out to lunch when he shagged that other girl.

As for my advice, what is better, she finding out from someone else or you tell her that you fucked up and try to make the best out of a bad situation?

Personally my conscience wouldn't allow me to lie to someone that I love, at least constantly anyways.

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Originally posted by chinamon not true. i say "ugh" but i am a tranny.

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Originally posted by kotsy lol colour me retarded

you don't love her as much as you say you do if you cheated...and being drunk is never an excuse. that just goes to show you can't be trusted after drinking alcohol, like most men in this world who think with their penis. you suck...

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

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Originally posted by Slylee you don't love her as much as you say you do if you cheated...and being drunk is never an excuse. that just goes to show you can't be trusted after drinking alcohol, like most men in this world who think with their penis. you suck...