One of the biggest things that attract people to eachother is mystery and challenge. If you walk up and say you love her (which I doubt, you lust her atm) *pop* you just took ALLLLLL the fun out of flirting. You gotta just play stupid/go with it and flirt back and invite them out to hang. Dates suck. Find stuff to do with other people you know as well and hang out. stufll happen if its gonna happen.

its a pretty simple equation of opportunities + time / comfort level. Comfort level in this case is 1 being the highest comfort level and succesively larger numbers represent a decrese in comfort. dates are uncomfortable unless you REALLY REALLY hit it off and are practically foot fucking her at the dinner table nothing much is going to happen. Dates are for super confident people, and you arent one.

So raise that comfort level and challenge level at the same time by doing group activities that are fun. Halo tournaments dont count.

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Originally posted by DJ Rat 187 Ok, this is the deal, there's this girl that I really like and she was in my classes both semesters this year and there was some flirting going on but I was never sure enough that she likes me and I never wanted to risk it, because I know that if I tell her and it turns out that she doesn't like me then we wont even be friends and it'll be all awkward talking to her. Well the second semester she kind of started playing hard to get but I don't know for sure. So I'm like pretty much in love with her and I don't know whether I should just tell her the whole truth and be real with her or try to go on a date or something with her or hang out with her and her friends etc. but I just don't know what to tell her or how to go about it. So I ask everybody out there to help me out, please, with this situation and give me some advice or how to go about this , please!

sounds to me like she might have been flirting because she was interested but gave up cause you were too slow to act. so ask her out and see if things go well. if htey do, try and get a piece of ass. dont bother telling her how you feel, just see if you can hang out together outside of school and let things go from there.

and have some confidence in yourself.

the whole note thing just reminded me of that movie with jennifer love hewitt where they are at the big party and the guy wrote the note but couldnt give it to her. do you really want to be that lame sack of shit?

make a move on her and see how she responds...try asking her out to the movies or some shit like that. maybe to be on the safe side, dont make it seem like its a big deal or anything. just be like "hey do you want to go see Garfield the Movie (but try to pick a good movie) with me?" and then see what she says and how she reacts.

chicks in college just want to hookup, not have relationships...just give it to her and thats it...

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Originally posted by callme I've always meant to ask this....who the fuck are you? I mean i have never heard of you or the 5 friends you have on your myspace. Official info : chokeonit

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Originally posted by jonze234 the whole note thing just reminded me of that movie with jennifer love hewitt where they are at the big party and the guy wrote the note but couldnt give it to her. do you really want to be that lame sack of shit?

or worse yet, the kid from TA who asked us if he should send the letter.

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Originally posted by butterfly or worse yet, the kid from TA who asked us if he should send the letter.

haha, butterfly +1

Take her to McDonalds, buy a happy meal, and give her the toy.

Game, set, match.

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Originally posted by UWM Take her to McDonalds, buy a happy meal, and give her the toy. Game, set, match.

don't give out those killer moves...they'll be no single women left

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Originally posted by UWM Take her to McDonalds, buy a happy meal, and give her the toy. Game, set, match.

only if it is a vibrating toy.

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Originally posted by UWM Take her to McDonalds, buy a happy meal, and give her the toy. Game, set, match.

does it help if its one those mcdonalds with the playground?

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Originally posted by R.j. i have no idea, plus im only 15

i keep seeing you use that excuse!

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Originally posted by butterfly only if it is a vibrating toy.

agreed!!

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