I know some of you have been waiting for my reply. but I already know I am a jerk, i just can't forget about her.
and for some of yall information, it is not like I don't want to forget about her, I do , of course, but If half of you knew her, you would feel the same, cause she's got this thing I can't explain, Like it just makes you fall in love with her, it makes you feel good,she's like the nicest person you could ever meet, when I got to extravaganza(paul) house, she was sitting in the couch looking at the TV, I saw her from the side and her hair just looked so beautiful,her nose,I am not going crazy, I am just crazy about her,I stood at the door for a long time staring at her, but then some bitch called out my name and she looked at me , got up with yellowbee and left.I know she likes her boyfriend, it is more than obvious if she doesnt even look at my face, but she is not mean at all,I just need to find another girl to make me forget about her.

Sorry everything is just fucked up now,I don't know what to do. she is like the nicest person in the world.

tyby

let me try to give you some advice tyby. i know what you're talking about dude. i've felt the same way about certain people. and certain people have felt the same way about me (although i can't figure out why ). sorry i'm always trying to be a comedian. but in all seriousness this is what someone told me once and it made a lot of sense cuz she was speaking from the bottom of her soul. in instances such as yours you feel a lot of pain because you cannot have what you want. but you choose to ignore this pain by replacing it with feelings of hope or longing. now we all know that you are not going to get the girl this time. sorry to be bluntly honest but it's just not going to happen. yet you let yourself believe that there is a possibility of it happening. and this hope overrides the pain. you still feel the pain of loss but yet it is not great enough pain to make you forget because the hope is there to blunt it. so what you have to do is stop hoping and let the pain wash over you. and only until you are fully immersed in it and you understand that she is gone forever will you be able to move on. sounds kind of cheesy or corny perhaps but it's true. otherwise you're in for a long masochistic cycle cuz there's nothing anyone can do to change this situation except for yourself. so that's it tyby. take it or leave it but that's the best advice you'll get from me. peace and stop this harassment business cuz how can you say you love someone by making them feel totally uncomfortable. doesn't equate in my book.

lost

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hmmmmmmm..
i really wonder how u can find love thru the net...

im with u abt.

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I'd better see you dead, little girl, than to be with another man.
You'd better keep your head, little girl, or you won't know where I end.
You'd better Run for Your Life, little girl.
I know that I'm a wicked guy and I was born with a jealous mind.
And I can spend my whole time trying just to make you tow the line.
You'd better Run for Your Life, little girl.

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Stop trying so HARD to forget her.

See tta always viewed this as life. Life is never easy. Hey what has happened to you has happened to almost 99.9% of guys at one time and you know what, either get an available girl or wait till she dumps her boyfriend. I would do the first example but what the hell do i know about relationships.

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Originally posted by penguin ah girl problems...ive got one...someone please try and explain to me. theres this girl im really good friends with...ive known her for about 6 months...we talk on the phone alot hang out a lot nearly everyday. were pretty much best friends...i guess u can already tell what the problem is. i tell her i like her and at first she says im not ready for a boyfriend yet cuz i just broke up and asks if she can go out with me later when shes ready. so im like ok...but i can tell she doesnt wanna really go out with me...so i talk to her and shes like i just like u as friend...i like u more than any other guy, u are special, i really really like u etc is what she says...but she cant go out with me. what the fuck. oh and she told my friend like if she went out with me nothing would change because its liek we are already going out...she said she knows me too well. so im guessing like i waited too long to ask her out huh...sigh...

i was in the same situation as you about a year ago sorry to say but id say 98% chance you waited to long to ask her out.

who knows though thats just from my personal experience

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Originally posted by Miss Proximus Would you like it if a girl harassed you all the time?

yes! seriously though, you should probably leave her alone. In my mind i think of the guy in the movies who steals the girls away and ruins a good relationship hehe.

there are two things that I have passed over in this thread.

1st:-Y does ppl think guys don't get hurt? I know that so many girls do that, as if we would be some kind of walking dicks (excuse the language but I've been thru this and I know it! - btw there are enough girls that want only cock-a-doodle-doo!).
We are human beings too. I must admit there are many guys that do that. U must admit there are also girls that do that. Why judge every single one like it will be like the one before? (I hope I am making sense) give everyone a chance.

(I am not taking TyBy's side now, I just say it as a general observation)

2nd (and even more important to me now): How can U anyone fall in love so easy? I'm not saying U can't (though for who might recall this was my opinion for a long time), but don't jump into conclusions like "U will loe again" or "well, I guess U love her more then U loved the other one.." crap like this! I hate seeing people that can fool themselves so easily!

I guess I am pretty agressive on this point. Well, I am! Love is rare. So rare, it's almost hazarduos to believe in it. I know am with this girl, she simply got me. She shattered my beliefs, she shattered my world... and I have told her "I love U". I really mean it. Because what I have achieved with her, it is almost beyond my emotional capabilities, and far beyond my rational understanding.

I don't want to be rational with her.

Try 2 love. But don't fool Urself before time! (sorry TyBY)

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Last edited by hypronix on Sep-28-2001 at 01:37

yeah guys are sensitive too! i cried seriously i did =P like twice...it really hurt cuz i really thought she would say yes...i dont ask many girls out...im too shy...she was only 2nd girl i asked out...first one said yes. i really like her...maybe even love...i dont get attached to girls so easy but this one god i really care for her...oh well life sucks! i gotta go get ready to go out with her right now...as friends that is...i wanna ask her why she doesnt wanna go out with me...i wanna know the total straight up truth tho i think it is cuz were too good friends...

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Originally posted by penguin yeah guys are sensitive too! i cried seriously i did =P like twice...it really hurt cuz i really thought she would say yes...i dont ask many girls out...im too shy...she was only 2nd girl i asked out...first one said yes. i really like her...maybe even love...i dont get attached to girls so easy but this one god i really care for her...oh well life sucks! i gotta go get ready to go out with her right now...as friends that is...i wanna ask her why she doesnt wanna go out with me...i wanna know the total straight up truth tho i think it is cuz were too good friends...

I'm kinda shy too... I was so close to loose my present gf because of this, and i sometimes hate myself so much bevause... but this is how we are made!

about Ur problem, I must say this is maybe only an aparent reason. she might not like U (don't be upset cuz I'm sayin' this; hell, I don't even know U guys, so I might be wrong as hell!!), or she indeed cares for Ur friendship too much.
but there is this belief I have ran over couple of times: "Boys and girls cannot be friends!" Period. I had this incredible friend, and she was a girl, yet things were okay. But I actually think it is true. So U are not friends with her, bc U like her, and she tries to hide herself in this reason..

but my advice is to talk. maybe she is confused, maybe she thinks it wouldn't work.

have luck!

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sum of the stories im reading here...u ******s are lame! lol...get ur friggin balls reattached or sumthing!

sorry to be this way....but i just think its sorry for any1 to get so hung up over another person!

no offence! just my .00000000000002 cents...

peace