yea you should definitely hold out if you think you might really like that person. i didn't sleep with my boyfriend until like 2 or 3 months into us dating/hanging out, and we were pretty much hanging out like every other day (the early bf/gf stage). i even slept over his place several times and nothing happened. we just slept it definitely makes it that much more special when you wait a while, and get to really know them first, because then feelings are involved in the sex, which makes it 10 times better if you ask me...that's why i'm not too fond of one night stands. i don't think i would even get off. but that's not to say that i've never gotten physical with someone i was dating early on in the relationship. things didn't work out in the end, but i can honestly say it wasn't because we had sex too soon.

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone