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You can change obesity though. You have some degree of control over your own body weight. |
No it's not. People are born with morbid obesity (a disease), and it's almost impossible for them to control their weight. Your statement shows just how much you really know about the challenges facing people who are obese. Too bad really, cause otherwise you'd give them the same amount of sympathy you are doling out on post-op transexuals.
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Short of surgery, you are stuck with your gender.
Totally not comparable.
I don't think any of us can comprehend what these people feel like - at least I am affording them some sympathy, whereas most of you can't even seem to do that. |
I don't think they want your sympathy actually. All they want is a sex change operation because it's the only thing that will lift them out of thier gloom (depression, sexual dissillusionment, whatever you want to call it). My point is, if it's ok for transexuals to get an operation that will essentially only help their mental well being to improve, then why isn't it ok to do the same with a woman with low self esteem, whose lived with the stigma of being small chested asking the government to pay for her breast surgery ? When you categorize people, and their depression is there a scale, and if so, how much more depression does a transexual go through, compared to say a midget, or a flat chested woman, or a guy with red hair and two left feet ? When you read the article, it cites the cases of 4 transexuals who have appealed against this law. 4 !!! I'm almost positive there are thousands as many, non-transexuals out there who could put up a strong case that they need the have their medical procedures paid for as well.
So tommorow after they have gotten the $7000 surgery and lead happy fullfilling lifes as the gender they we believe they were supposed to be, how come us stright, non-transexuals don't get the same opportunity to change our body to achieve fullfillment ? I mean come on, there are obsese people out there who i'm sure could cite all the hardships they have faced in life, the scorn society heaps on the fat, the severe pschological damage done right through childhood and now crippling them in adult life. Surely they are entitled to some tax payer funded operation that will help them lead better lifes as well. We owe it to them as much as we do to transexuals. If not more. Apply the coat of sympathy evenly for gods sake.
The question of comparing the circumstances people are in and their problems is simply not possible. Yeah, i'm sure those 4 transexuals are feeling pretty bummed right now, trapped in the wrong sex. But i'm almost positive there are ten times as many men and women trapped in their daily lifes feeling that some part of their body isn't quite the way it should be, and whether or not they can do something about it, it becomes a question of fairness in my mind that if a transexual can claim a $7000 sex change is the key to his/her happiness then i should be able to lay a similar claim. I fail to see the equality in saying yes to a procedure that is hundreads of times more expensive then an eye exam or a visit to the chiropracter simply because it is corrects a wrong a person believes they were born with.
Sorry, but there are a whole lotta of people, who aren't transexuals who can use the same argument.
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Last edited by Kytracid on Nov-29-2004 at 20:31
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