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Just be careful her parents don't find out, or you might not need birth control.

Anyways, just remember that you can't change what has happened, and there is little reason to get so worried. You took a chance but you should be okay.

You really need to be careful though, and more importantly you need to be smart about sex. Some girls can have unprotected sex for months and not get pregnant, and some will get pregnant the first time, and its really not worth any risks like that.

I'm not going to give you moral lectures on what you can and can't do, because its your choice at the end of the day but these simple guidelines could be a good starting point:

1. Always use condoms. Buy a few packets. Stick some in your bottom drawer, some in your school bag and some in the jackets of your clothes. The only time to stop using condoms is if the girl you are sleeping with has been on the pill for at least 1 month. Always use condoms when sleeping with girls that are not virgins, unless they get tested.

I know that at your age buying condoms is probably scary, and embarrassing, but just be tough and go and do it.

2. Use lubrication. Don't put lube on until the condom is on. This will decrease the chance of your condom breaking, and makes things easier.

3. Get tested regularly. As soon as you become sexually active you should be tested after you have non-safe sex, and at least every 3-6 months. This gives you peace of mind, and your sexual partners.

4. Make sure that you are not getting yourself into trouble by having sex. Sleeping with young girls, even when you are young, can be a good way to get beat up or get in trouble with the law. Dad's can be extremely protective of their daughters. I'm not going to tell you what you should do, because your morals are your business, but be careful.

5. If you do happen to have unprotected sex, just like you have done, then go and buy a pregnancy tester kit, and make your girl pee in the tub and test it. More than likely she will not be pregnant, but the scary experience of not knowing, buying a tester kit, and waiting for the result is generally enough to make sure you learn your lesson for next time.

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Originally posted by StalkerElmo okay but like how can this happen, like, you pre-cum and then you put on a condom, and then you realize that you put the condom on the other way around so that the precum is on the outside of the condom so when you have sexual intercourse the precum goes inside of her and gets her pregnant? like WTf hello!

my friend did that once then realized afterwards and made the girl get a morning after pill.

this thread reminds me of one i saw on a different forum. some kid was asking if it was possible to get a girl pregnant by fingering her, and someone responded "unless you can shoot sperm out of your fingertips then no". I thought it was funny...

but seriously, if you get jizz on your hands then finger a girl I suppose it's possible...

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15 is not too young for a girl to be on the pill. i was 15 when i started taking it. just have her do research on how the different types of pills can affect you (i find the low-dose ones are the best, very few side effects), and have her talk to her doctor about it.

if she doesn't feel mature enough to be discussing it with her doctor, (or maybe even her mom, i know some moms are real cool about stuff like that), then she probably shouldn't be having sex in the first place. it's an adult activity and can end up with adult consequences, and both of you should be ready and mature enough to handle it BEFORE you have sex.

on a related note... way too many kids having kids in high school these days.

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Originally posted by UWM I Sex. I hate condoms.

the condom is the glass slipper of our generation. you slip one on when you meet a stranger...you dance all night. then you throw it away...

Get her on the pill dude AND use a condom. Believe me, I know more than one person who is now a daddy even though their girl was on the pill. Certain medications can lower the pill's effectiveness, and if she forgets one on the wrong day, well, you know whats gonna happen.

If she can't go and tell her mom she is having sex and needs the pill then have her complain of migraines or bad menstrual cramps. Being on the pill helps both of those so she might be able to get on it that route vs having to tell her parents she is having sex.

Because as a father, I'd be very supportive of my daughter but I would secretly take revenge on you

I think I've been fairly lucky in my day to stay clean and child-less.

ok, so now question is. Who was a pullout baby???

meeeeeeeeeee

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Tell her to take the pill and wear a condom. You are highly unlikely to have any issues under those circumstances.

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