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Originally posted by goonerjack Profound ... of course in the long run it will be much better than never knowing, but at the moment everything else seems so insignificant. I wanna be happy, and even with my teachers constantly bitching at me, if I had that girl nothing else would matter. There just seemed something different about her, I know prettier girls and would even go as far to say I know more interesting girls. But I'd never felt the same about any other girl - it just seemed to me that something was right - obviously I was wrong

I know exactly how you feel in that regard. It's strange that you can go through life with no significant cause or ideals straying away from the ordinary expectation of women, then find yourself totally enamored by this one person who you would find the most unlikely, of all people, to be one you would stress yourself out so much over.

The girl whom I like does not live up to what I know to be the standard for a 'hawt chik' - yet, I find her absolutely beautiful nonetheless. She is intelligent, and quite young (err, that's not really an issue) and she doesn't even have the same interests as me - yet, I find myself attracted to her nonetheless. I have only my feeling in this instance - I have shown remarkable restraint despite the fact that I think about her everyday, and I can't stand the lack of communiction between us. There are many explanations as to why this is occuring, none of them are for sure, but I somehow get the feeling that she really does feel very similar for me as I do for her, yet is being held back for some reason - perhaps not even by her own inhibitions. Maybe this is just wishful thinking though - I intend to find out in due time.

Well, that went a bit too far.

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Originally posted by goonerjack i lyk grls dt cnt spel and if only if it was that simple! just for a bit of an example, of the 120 girls in my year, none of them even come close

is there a rule that says you can only go for girls in your year. Hit up the elementary schools er something




ok, maybe not elementary, but chicks dig older n00bs. get a gal a year or two younger.

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Originally posted by Nou Im not even going to go there with this girl Im friends with now... Gooner, dude, you really shouldnt have done that, it can really fuck shit up!!!!!

shut up man, you dont know what you're on about.

if you dont try, you'll never know! what if she had said yes? you could go your whole life liking somone and you might never know what could of been.

someone posted a really touching poem on here a month or so ago that summed up that situation exactly.

take the risk, always!

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jack mate,

best thing to do now is not make any more conversation with her on the matter, otherwise it might creep her out or shwo you're TOO keen. best thing is to act happy go lucky.

if possible try to force your attentions on another girl. If you really like this girl, the only real cure (but the hardest) is to keep away from her to ease any heart-ache.

things may change in the future anyway.. expect the unexpected.

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Originally posted by tribu Teachers who overload university students with projects, papers, and other things at the end of the quarter. Spread it out! Also, university students who procrastinate.

I invented the work procrastinate.

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Originally posted by Streakfury I invented the work procrastinate.

Wait..."work procrastinate"...?

Isn't that sort of an oxymoron?

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Originally posted by Nell jack mate, best thing to do now is not make any more conversation with her on the matter, otherwise it might creep her out or shwo you're TOO keen. best thing is to act happy go lucky. if possible try to force your attentions on another girl. If you really like this girl, the only real cure (but the hardest) is to keep away from her to ease any heart-ache. things may change in the future anyway.. expect the unexpected.

i havent actually spoken to her since I told her how I felt, but I get the impression that she thinks I'm really pissed off with her from the amount of times she said sorry at the time and in the email. That isn't true at all, I'm just a bit down (obviously) - but it seems to me as though we could still have a good friendship. It does suck just seeing her and knowing that she doesn't share my feelings, but i think maybe if we can have a chat to kinda clear the air then we could be even closer friends than before - to me it'll seem that something's outta the way.

I see what you mean by trying to steer clear and forget about her, and that's something I could do... but dont you think that if I can get a good friendship out of this then I may as well go with it? It seems to be what she wants...

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Originally posted by Nou Woot, strike the havnt talked to her in a week and a half, LOL... if you wait long enough they call you! Anyways that made today not suck as much, infact it didnt suck much besides that fact... I still Im tired and hungry tho, but I got a pizza to put in the oven and I can sleep in tmrw!

any developments?

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Originally posted by Nou Im pretty sure she dosnt feel the same way about me... lol she has always described her guys as the skinny (I mean massivly skinny heroin sheik sorta style) guys that are indy rockers, Im an average build skin head (NO NOT A NAZI!) hard trance DJ. So besides our friendship there is a world of differences... I read that poem, and yea... it was touching, and I did feel a connection to it, but I would rather not waste a friendship that I enjoy with her. Or I could just do it and see what happens, but I doubt anything productive or good will come of it for me.

I agree with Nell - it may seem stupid but i was more nervous when I told her than I've even been, and it took balls, but I'm glad I did it

Before what did I have? - an alritish friendship
Now potentially what do I have? - a good friendship, reading from what she's been telling me

So yeah, I haven't really lost anything, and even though I feel crappish at the moment, it was worth the chance of something great in ym opinion

i have an assignment due in tomorrow and have none of it done.


also, to the thread-starter, in relation to keeping friends. Remeber if yous stay good friends, at some stage your going to have to deal with her having another boyfriend so weigh it all up before deciding to stay friends. best of luck with it all anyway

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