I've caught myself thinking that nice guys finish last a lot too... usually after being brushed off...

But really, I think afterwards, did I really give myself a chance? Or was I wishy-washy? I agree that confidence is everything.

"Even a BAD decision is better than NO decision!" - Tony Suprano.



As for the "game"... I detest it. It's horseshit as far as I'm concerned... you can drive yourself crazy thinking, "Should I call? I don't want to look desperate... but if I don't call, will she lose interest?" Part of the problem I think is that many girls have been programmed by society not to "tip their hands"... or give away to much... it's crap. If you are interested, why hide it? Playing "hard to get" is really dumb... and it doesn't WORK!

But really, nobody should feel they have to act or treat people a certain way... but it's a hard habit to get out of.

whew... /rant.

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I agree that there is a notion that associates being nice with being weak, and it's total bullox. Being nice is a lot easier than the opposite. Why would I be an asshole just to attract a certain type of female? Why pretend to be something you are not, if you cannot appreciate my kindness and genorosity then fuck off. If you abuse my kindness and genorosity, then fuck off again. Problem with a lot of nice guys is that they are pushovers, they let girls walk all over them.

What baffles me beyond belief are these girls who fall for that image. Why the fuck would you want someone who treats you like shit? I don't want a bitchy girl who treats me disrespect. The only reason why guys like that exist is becuase of stupid girls that put up with their bullshit.

It's a lot easier to be an asshole, you simply don't have to give a shit about anything, and voila, you're an asshole. Try the opposite for once and see what it feels like.

And the whole 'game' thing is ridiculous. I can't believe what puppets some girls are, who fall for the cliche sweet-nothings-in-your-ear bullshit. If words can sweep you off your feet then I truly feel sorry for you. As the old saying goes, action speak louder than words.

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Originally posted by Enraptured As for the "game"... I detest it. It's horseshit as far as I'm concerned... you can drive yourself crazy thinking, "Should I call? I don't want to look desperate... but if I don't call, will she lose interest?" Part of the problem I think is that many girls have been programmed by society not to "tip their hands"... or give away to much... it's crap. If you are interested, why hide it? Playing "hard to get" is really dumb... and it doesn't WORK!

dude, dont think so hard, you'll hurt yourself. trust me, thinking can get painfull at times. or maybe its coz i have a simple mind...lol

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Originally posted by trancechaos dude, dont think so hard, you'll hurt yourself. trust me, thinking can get painfull at times. or maybe its coz i have a simple mind...lol

thats my biggest problem! i over think EVERYTHING wayyyy too much... i need to relax and just let things roll out!

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Originally posted by bARTovsky Nice guys finish last. You're running out of gas. Your sympathy will get you left behind. Sometimes you're at your best, when you feel the worst. Do you feel washed up, like piss going down the drain Pressure cooker pick my brain and tell me I'm insane. I'm so fucking happy I could cry. Every joke can have its truth and now the joke's on you. I never knew you were such a funny guy. Oh nice guys finish last, when you are the outcast. Don't pat yourself on the back, you might break your spine. Living on command. You're shaking lots of hands. Kissing up and bleeding all your trust, taking what you need. Bite the hand that feeds. You lose your memory and you got no shame.

GREEN DAY MOTHERFUCKAZ !!!

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Originally posted by oldschool420 thats my biggest problem! i over think EVERYTHING wayyyy too much... i need to relax and just let things roll out!

Is your Zodiac by anychance a virgo?

Girls say they want nice guys, then they go for assholes. After the assholes hurt them, they complain about how there aren't any nice guys left.

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Just shows to prove that GIRLS DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT!

Yeah ive pretty much given up on dating here. I wait until i travel before i even bother. Not that i have any problems here but im just sick of having to pretend to be something that im not.

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Originally posted by trancechaos dude, dont think so hard, you'll hurt yourself. trust me, thinking can get painfull at times. or maybe its coz i have a simple mind...lol

Yes... I've given up on thinking... had my brain removed... it's easier this way.

Heh heh.

I've decided on the "impulse" approach. If it feels right, then do it.

No excuses. No regrets. I am trying not to ever have to wonder, "What would have happened if I had...etc."

So far so good...




...but still single!

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Originally posted by Jayx1 Nice guys unite!!! Why is it that our society labels nice people as being weak? Why is it that our society labels nice people as having "ulterior motives"? It's time to let our guard down and stop pretending to be assholes and nonchalant just because that's what the opposite sex wants. Oh they say they want "nice guys" but then they end up with mustang guido! Women in other cultures appreciate a nice guy. It's time to take back Canada! ahahahahahah

You say "we" like you're one of em or something!

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Originally posted by DC- Is your Zodiac by anychance a virgo?

nope i'm a Pieces