guess i can kinda relate to this. my best friend ended up getting off with an ex of mine. he came straight up to me after and apologized etc...i made the mistake of shrugging it off and saying no big deal.

next thing i know they're locked in the bedroom together, and then me and my mate have a massive bust up which resulted in a little damage to my mates house [still getting fixed/paid for ]

so i guess your friend could be shrugging it off because he might not want to admit to anyone that it would piss him off/hurt him. it depends on the level of friendship though. i mean i wouldn't mind if it was a lesser friend, it was the fact it was my 'best' friend who i see all the time etc.

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you can't DATE your freinds x gf. but no one ever said you couldnt fuck her till she walks funny on a one night stand basis, even if that one night stand happens once a week. just not cuddling or dates

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Originally posted by Rodas I didn't want to be cliche and post another girl thread... But what the hell.... Here it goes. I'm in a kind of fucked up situation. Last night a girl calls my friend to hang out. I didn't know if the details if he was trying to hook up with her or not, but this was my first meeting her and she was really suprisingly hot. The friends that she was with weren't so much, but she was... And why the hell do hot girls like to have ugly friends, to make themselves look better? Blah, that's another thread. But anyway, to cut a long story short, in the first few minutes I didn't really know what she thought of me or whatever, I thought she was looking at me kind of funny but that could've just been the state of mind I was in (we started to drink early). So this girl he brought us to meet starts talking to me. And a few minutes into the converstation she starts to feel on my leg under my shorts with her fingernails and etc. It happened more than once. I thought, what the fuck? Is she making a pass at me in front of my friend that she's talking to? Even though she tried to make it not "too" noticable, I'm pretty sure he noticed. She wasn't exactly very slick about it. When she wasn't around I asked him what was up between them and he just shrugged it off. When another friend asked if he fucked her he sais he didn't, but who knows (don't know why he would deny it, she's hot). When I asked what they were doing later she invited us to dinner with her and even later when we all started drinking, I kept talking to her and she kept flirting with me (putting her hand on my lap, etc).. She drank a bit too much, and was fucked up so she asks if I want to walk her out, I do, and her and her friend leave. I think she was something like an x-girlfriend to him or something, but I asked if she was single and she gave me a "yes" like she was interested. Yea yea, x-girlfriends are off limit. But I kinda dig her and want to hang with her again, even if it is as friends or something. I didn't get her number or anything because I didn't know how that would look to my friend, and since it is kinda his x-girlfriend for fucks sake. I haven't spoken to my friend about it and I don't want to make him feel like I'm trying to steal his chicks because even though people act like they don't care, you never know. I have a friend who fucked another of my friends x-girlfriend and they don't really get along anymore, so I don't know where to take this.. Rodas

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Originally posted by dj_bas wow awesome!! that's way bigger than mine

dont fuck her. you just think you like her cause she was flirting with you and probably the only reason she was flirting with you was cause she was drunk or possibily cause she wanted to make your friend jealous. go find your own girl who doesnt have connections to your friends.

If your friend is someone you care about, then whether he dated her or whether he simply likes her makes her off-limits to you. I disagree with Pink. If he saw her first, and you got introduced to her through him, then you're encroaching upon his territory. Don't mess around with her, and don't be "friends" with her either, as that can only lead to problems. Nip the problem at the bud, and don't start anything stupid that could ruin a good friendship, if indeed you perceive your relationship with your friend as that.

The only way to settle this is to play rock, paper, scissors with your friend. Winner gets to fuck her while the loser has to hide in the closet and watch.

Hm, thanks for the replys.

Long post so watch out:

After deciding on my own after sobering up I decided to tell my friend about the whole situation because in the end I think that my friendship with him is much more important than some chick I don't even know. Told him straight out what happened. Said I was fucked up, she was fucked up, said I don't really know what happened, blah blah blah.

So the lowdown:

In the middle of me telling him what happened he out of the blue picks up his cellphone, finds her number, and calls her (which I would've rathered he not). He then asked her if he can give her my number.. She kept asking why he was asking her that, and in the end, as if It was best, she told him that she was talking to somebody at the moment..

Who knows.. Maybe she is telling the truth, or thinks she was just trying to make my friend jealous or was just too fucked up like I was to know what she was doing (like said by one of the girls earlier).. Maybe she didn't like me at all. Like I said, who knows, I'm not a chick, and I'm not her. What went into my mind when she said that though is that if an ex called me up asking the same thing with one of her friends and I was still friends with my ex, even if I did like the girl I'd probably go the same way as she did.

Later on after he called he then changes his story and sais that he did fuck her, and that he just didn't say anything because she didn't want him telling anybody (which asks my questions again, if I fucked a girl, especially a hot one, why hide it?). I mean, it's possible.. Maybe he did, maybe he didn't. Afterwards he also sais that I dont want her, because he fucked her. So long story short, I'll take all of that shit as a sign from him saying don't fuck with her, or any of my x girlfriends in the future. It's like a "don't even try to in the future mother******". I think I know him enough to know that fucking her would piss him off, I knew that in the begining, but I was letting my dick talk for me instead. And he contradicted himself a few times so I didn't know if it was a friend or not, etc etc. But anyway, we're still cool (which is much more to say if something did happen).

Conclusion is that If I'm ever around her again I'll try my best to let me dick stay in my pants. Even if I am fucked up, or not (the ladder would probably be easier to control), I'm still not going to fuck her.

I'm not so desperate for pussy that I need to fuck her or any of his other friends (is any guy really)?

But really, there could probably be other girls out there in the future even hotter that I won't have to feel guilty about fucking or even talking to for that matter..

so there =p.

No more chick threads from me.

Rodas

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Last edited by Rodas on Apr-06-2005 at 16:52

Hmm lets see

1. She gives you looks
2. She flirts with you
3. She INITIATES sexual touching on multiple occasions
4. She asks you to walk her out

....and you don't ask her phone number, you dont make a move, you REJECT her at least 4 times in one night by showing no interest at all.

Your issue is moot because odds are you lost your chance with this girl after that night. And by her blowing off your friend when he called her it looks like I'm 100% right.

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Originally posted by dj_bas wow awesome!! that's way bigger than mine

*shrugs*

there will be other girls. Girls come and go. I'm not worried. In the end I think I made the right decision..

At least her making the moves let's me know that I still got it.

Rodas

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