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| quote: | Originally posted by loca
It's so sad that even now, some parents still have issues with other races. I'm lucky my parents are totally cool with me dating people outside my race, because if they weren't i think we would have a really huge problem.
I really feel for your friend, although i didn't really understand the first part of your post... the whole relationships with the aunt, the cousin, the cousin's friend's aunt  or something... didn't really get that lol Has your friend's mom outright told her she couldn't date the guy or is this just what someone else heard and then repeated to her? If she only heard about it, she should confront her mom and bring the issue out in the open. It's better for her to be clear about everything.
IMHO, if the mother really had such a big problem with it she would have straight out told her daughter. I'd find out if her cousin (or whatever that relation is) is right first before making assumptions that could be potentially harmful to their mother-daughter relationship. |
My friends mom was talking to her sister (my friends aunt) on the phone. Thats when her aunt was told this by my friends mom. Then her aunt talked to her daughter (my friends cusin) about it. In turn, my cusin told my friend what was said.
She is talking to her aunt today about it to find out exactly whats up, so she knows from the actual person who was told it. They are both totally sticking up for her as they should. Either way, her mom is the one that needs to change or live with it, not my friend.
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