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| quote: | Originally posted by DrUg_Tit0
Svens, you make it sound like it's their own fault things like these are happening. Yes, I agree it's more a cultural than a religious thing, but that is totally irrelevant. It's easy for you who have normal and tolerant parents, and accesss to everything you wish for to say such crap that these women should have known better, and that they shouldn't have interfered in their local traditions. I'd like to see you say something like that when you'd get a slap on the face every time you try to voice your opinion, regardless of whether it's right or not. The fact of the matter is that these women were, unlike you, deprived of their intrinsic rights as human beings from the day they were born. FFS, the woman was forced to marry her cousin at 16. She couldn't have known what she was getting in to, as you intelligently suggested, and even if she did, she had no choice whatsoever. Move away you say? To where? Fleeing your home is not really an insignificant thing. Especially if you consider that these women were opressed their entire lives, taught that they were inferior, and probably had no access to quality education (if any). So what do you do when you flee from home and start to get hungry and dirty and sleep on the street? What, go to a hotel and get a high paying job untill you find a nice 300m^2 villa on the Azure coast to settle down in? Right, more like become a hooker or wash dishes at the local chinese restaurant for the rest of your life.
It fascinates me how you on one hand defend such an irrelevant thing as the feelings of black people who get offended when being called black, yet on the other hand you condone these barbaric, savage, and primitive acts of a sadist and opressive cultures without really showing any sympathy for the victims involved. I guess genital mutilations, slavery, and ritual killings are ok too, because they're inherent parts of some local cultures, but telling a vertically challenged person that he's a dwarf is really horrible and should call for a death sentence?
I am also astounded by your passiveness in accepting these traditions, and your general view that things should always be accepted the way they are. To put it shortly, no they should not be! Slavery should not be accepted, opression should not be accepted, and, you guessed it, honor killings should not be accepted either, whether done by a christian or a muslim lunatic. There are millions of people throughout the world suffering horrible faiths because of their local cultures. Some cultures are simply inferior to others and at a lesser level of development, and in such cultures most people do want a change, but are either afraid to take action (I suppose you can guess why), or don't have any idea in which exact way the society should be changed. Why do you think that the cultures in South America collapsed as soon as the spaniards arrived? Do you think that some 150 soldiers led by Cortes or Pizarro could have brought such a havoc to the civilization if the people liked their way of living? That really shows that the essence of political correctness being an artificial display of equality between unequal things is fundamentally flawed. Societies are not equal as people living in some are much happier than those living in others, cultures are not equal as some have achieved miraculous levels of artistic and scientific development while others are living in stone age, and people are not equal as some are good and smart, and others are corrupt and stupid (although they should all have equal rights at the beginning of their lives). And finally, here you bring towards a problem of smoking weed that's totally insignificant relative to the magnitude of the problem discussed in the thread. Oh the horror, oh the humanity, you might end up with healthy lungs! Anyway, regardless of my oppinion on the subject, that's like comparing a fight between 2 neighbours with the 2nd World War. So please, stop trying to relativize things. The only good such cultures are good for is for displaying what cultures should not be like. |
fuckin hell
i think my point in this issue was that they should have known what their family was like with regard to these issues...ie how closlely things like family honour etc were to the family. i wasnt condoning it, and im sure i stated that earlier.
i dont see why your bringing up the whole black labelling thing from the other thread...thats got absolutely fuck all to do with this to be honest.
as for the smoking weed thing..i used it to compare the adhernace to the rules of a community, whtehr that be the informal rulles within your cultural community or the formal rulles of the law in the wider community at large. in other words they should have been aware of the rules of her culture/community/or at least of her own family...and then been able to judge what was likley to have happened if they broke those rules. wait unitl they were able to move away then do so. moving out of home doesnt mean sleeping on the streets.
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