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| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Don't be too sure in your position (pardon the pun). Every woman that I have introduced to anal loves it. It's all about doing it the right way.... I have developed a method;
1) rim jobs... while preforming oral sex the man should introduce anal pleasure by also licking the anus. Gentle is the key here. It will feel a little odd for the woman at first but she will enjoy it.
2) rim jobs (continued)... rather then concentraiting on the vagina and clitoris while preforming oral the man should concentrate on the anus whilst also stimulating the vagina and clitoris with his hands
3) anal rubbing... whilst engaging in both oral and penetrative sex the man should lube a digit and gently rub the anus... no penetration just rubbing.
4) digital penetration... whilst engaging in oral sex the man should gently insert a digit (best to start small) into the anus. At first the penetration should be shallow but getting progressively deeper as his partner's response to it dictates.
5) digital penetration (continued).... Whilst engaging in peneratrative sex the man should lube a digit and gently insert it into the anus. Again, shallow at first and getting deeper as his partner responds positively.
6) Penial rubbing... now it is time to introduce rubbing the anus with the head of the penis. This is best done during intercourse. Whilst engaging in intercourse the man should withdraw for short breaks to rub the anus with the head of his penis. This will get his partner used to the feeling and curious about full penetration
7) Penial penetration... this should be done only at the female partner's request. If the above steps have been followed correctly the female partner will likely want to experience full penetration and will request it when she is ready.
The key for all of this is trust and openess. Additionally, time is required. This is not a fast process, rather, it requires weeks to months in order to build up the trust and desire as well as breaking down the inhibitions. |
Now i know what i've been doing wrong..
At the end of the day, i think most girls are curious to how it feels to have their shit pushed in..
One question...
After anal sex, how long does it usually take for the anus to complete ly close.
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