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Originally posted by lücid you're trying way too hard... and girls hate that. stop worrying about your image and how you can impress the ladies. just be yourself, do what YOU like, and eventually you'll run into someone who you'll hit it off with. the best relationships usually happen when you least expect them... and the more you try to force it, the less it seems to work.

See I have the problem, if I'm not expecting them I miss the cues.

I've been out with mates, chatting idly with a chick at a bar or somehting (can't remember exactly now) and anyway she's made some comment about having to leave and I said something like "oh yeah, ok, well, cya later". She went and my one of my mates slapped me over the back of the heaed and said I was a fuckin idiot and that chick was definitely interested in me. Cos I was just there having a few with my mates and relaxing I didn't even notice!

I need to find a happy medium (cos believe, I go waaaaaaaaay too hard when I try)

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Originally posted by lücid stop worrying about your image and how you can impress the ladies. just be yourself, do what YOU like, and eventually you'll run into someone who you'll hit it off with. the best relationships usually happen when you least expect them... and the more you try to force it, the less it seems to work.

then why do so many poseurs get girls?

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Originally posted by RapidFire then why do so many poseurs get girls?

I can actually answer that. Those girls are the insecure glammer chicks. You don't want them anyway.

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Originally posted by Trance Nutter I need to find a happy medium (cos believe, I go waaaaaaaaay too hard when I try)

it's true... in my experience, many guys either try too hard or they don't try hard enough. first impressions are very important, and you need to do or say something to make an impact on the girl - something that she'll remember you by, something to set yourself apart from the other hundreds of guys hitting on her, etc... but you also can't be too forward or pushy about it, otherwise it will scare her away or she'll just get annoyed with you.

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Originally posted by lücid something that she'll remember you by, something to set yourself apart from the other hundreds of guys hitting on her,

I had an idea a few days ago (watching blackadder actually) of wearing a Cardinal's hat whenever I go out.

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If your looking for a girlfriend the club is not the place.If you want a little bit of nani hey hey stop worrying so much go out and have the time of your life.Women dig a guy who is fun so if you stop your whining and start thrusting your pelvis, you should see results immediatly.If your an ugly guy you could always wear a uniform...women love a man in uniform.Just make sure its not Cintas or UPS.

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak If your looking for a girlfriend the club is not the place.If you want a little bit of nani hey hey stop worrying so much go out and have the time of your life.Women dig a guy who is fun so if you stop your whining and start thrusting your pelvis, you should see results immediatly.If your an ugly guy you could always wear a uniform...women love a man in uniform.Just make sure its not Cintas or UPS.

UPS guys stab bitches

Firemen hose them down.

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Originally posted by RapidFire then why do so many poseurs get girls?

because they appear confident, and they know what to say to a girl to get her interested. guys like that are kind of like knock-off designer watches - they look impressive and shiny from a distance, but once you get a closer look, you realize they're just a cheap piece of crap... and the kind of girls that go home with a guy like that are usually insecure fake bitches and they need the attention (whether it be good or bad) to boost their self-esteem.

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak Firemen hose them down.

As a scientist I........................ show them my bunsen burner

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i <3 insecure fake bitches

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak i <3 insecure fake bitches

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